Well this is how I think of it. Imagine you found a spare dollar in your pants, and you offered it to me, but I was like 'meh'. Then, imagine we were BFFs and you sold your house to give the precedes to me, but I rejected it and was like 'meh'. They stand on two different levels of importance. Obviously, it's a ridiculous example, but the point stands. I mean, life is the greatest gift of all. However, I can't think of anywhere where it says "Suicide warrants eternal ****ation. Forever. And ever. And ever". Plus there's the fact that the bible has been....'adjusted' over the past couple millennia to suit individual's needs.
there is a difference. the person who sold the house sacrificed himself for your hapiness. actually a dollar is valuable for everybody since every human being uses it. actually imagine giving a million dollar to some guy who is happy living with his tribe in the woods... i doubt he would be overly happy about your gift.
and life isnt always great. some people have horibble lives and i can make up a story about a person with a horibble life.
besides, god gave eve to adam not to the human race. i really cant understand why people compare eve to EVERY single girl and adam to EVERY single man.