And why not? Breaking down the opponents and showing the fault and stupidity of opposing arguments is one of the best ways to show them the faults and stupidity of their arguments.
There are ways to do disassemble someone's arguments/points without posting as if you're a prosecutor putting someone on trial for illegal ethics.
Men (And women) can take an insult when it is deserved.
You know there isn't room for insults in this forum. You say disassembling an opponent's argument is best to 'show them the faults and stupidity of their arguments', yet...
I see that all the time! I say they are wrong and that their ideas are stupid. An accurate statement much of the time, why should I not?
Beating them with a stick is only going to incite deep-seated hatred of the other side and further close their mind to any further thoughts on the matter.
...As has been demonstrated before whenever arguments like this arise.
Isn't that what you are doing here, telling us that your ideas are better?
You are thinking he's telling us that his ideas are better.
And because you think that you are better then all us while trying to say that we shouldn't think that.
How does your brain deduce that the Op is demonstrating superiority in his post?
And why would we do that? Part of arguing effectively is getting an emotional reaction from your opponent, why wouldn't we do such?
There is getting an emotional reaction from your opponent, then there is understanding the emotions from your opponent when debating, all the better to demonstrate your points and why theirs are faulty/persuading them to consider another side of an issue.
Hardly links insults to flame wars.
It's a mighty fine catalyst for such.
Or are you saying you are better then them
Alright, we need to talk about this "better than them/us" thing and about how you reach these conclusions. If nowhere in the passage suggests or implies superiority (which it doesn't) and you're getting this from your own thoughts, you need to seriously retract your last statement. Nobody enjoys opponents who get the wrong idea when the other side speaks, nor do they enjoy people who put words into their mouths. If you are one who fancies logic and deduction, then deduce the correct way and practice your preaching.
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As for the OP, the gesture is appreciated. We need more "coolness" when debating; however, there is a sticky that addresses the need for rationality and objective behavior already.