Well, I think they (AG forum people) should try to answer questions thru here. Apparently not so. After a little poking around found and email for a forum mod who was kind enough to answer my question:
"Unfortunately, you would have to email Splitscreen as we do not have the ability to change anything. :( I apologize for the inconvenience caused."
Of course an email for Splitscreen would have been nice. So again poking about got:
Steel Legions Support
Got a confirmation within 2 hours (auto) with a ticket number. And a priority assignment: Low (lol)
My advice: If you want to spend any money on this game make sure you know which way you want to play it. And stick with that.
And I have no problem spending a few bucks on a game that would sell in stores for $50+. Although more in game rewards for those that do, would be nice.