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Abortion

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:09pm

Lennywins

Lennywins

135 posts

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But say it WAS considered to have you aborted, hypothetically, how would you feel? But I agree with you Raptor, if it's just not practical to have a child, there's nothing to be done. And about adoption, it's great, but there just aren't enough people out there who are looking to adopt to take all of the kids that someone has given birth to because they couldn't do anything about it. Here, you can insert the appropriate comment about abstinence, but I'm referring to the responsible portion of the public who can stand to go for a while without getting themselves or their partners pregnant.

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:17pm

RaptorExx

RaptorExx

1,481 posts

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blakboiballa, if you were abused and found out you were pregnat, would you even want to keep the baby? While yes, many people will, but what about those who are planning on finishing school, going to college, they'd have to completely change their life plans because of something like that. and once again I'm NOT talking about out-of control teens cause I think that's what you're talking about Lennywins, however I'm not quite sure :(

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:24pm

Bloody_Wolf

Bloody_Wolf

105 posts

Iron - Squire

In those cases of molestation resulting in pregnancy, I still don't see why the baby should suffer for the actions of its father. Why should the child indeed suffer the death penalty for a crime it did not commit?

Now, I know we've been talking about irresponsible promiscuity vs. cases of molestation, but think about what percentage of unexpected pregnancies result from molestation as opposed to irresponsibility. If you look at only the molestation cases, there are definitely more than enough adoption opportunities to cover all of those. Now, if an irresponsible person got pregnant, she shouldn't burden another person with the result of her mistake. She should leave the adoption opportunities for the ones who need it and carry the burden herself.

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:26pm

Carlie

Carlie

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Bloody Wolf, I understand what you are saying, but the fact is that you are not a woman. You never have to worry about making that decision.

If a woman was *****, and got pregnant as a result, you would expect her to carry it to term even though every day it causes her pain? Even though she hates the father, and the thing growing inside of her? For 9 months, you would want to force her to hate herself and her body, and likely from then on after because of how emotional it would be?

Women do not get abortions just to do them. It is not an every day thing. You have to realize that women only do it when there is no other option, when they cannot handle it.

I am just curious, do you disagree with the Day After Pill?

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:27pm

Carlie

Carlie

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In response to the post you just put up, it is not just the child that suffers here. You have to think about the woman as well, and how much she may suffer.

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:29pm

Bloody_Wolf

Bloody_Wolf

105 posts

Iron - Squire

Of course I'm not a woman, but if I got pregnant as a result of abuse, sure, I would feel "violated," but I would not feel "vile," because it wasn't my fault, or the baby's. I would keep the baby even in that case, because I couldn't live with myself if I chose abortion. And even if I were planning to finish school, I know I could do it with the help of my friends. Anyone can do the same.

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:29pm

Lennywins

Lennywins

135 posts

Wood - Squire

Hmmm... Good point. My arguments cancel each other out. But you summed up what I meant anyways. Those that are irresponsible should carry the weight, not dump it off on someone else and do it again. THOSE are the people that really grind my gears.

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:32pm

Bloody_Wolf

Bloody_Wolf

105 posts

Iron - Squire

Hmm, Carlie, I guess I can answer that. I am not against any form of pre-conceptive birth control, however, I am against the Day After Pill, because it kills a life that had already been created.

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:32pm

Lennywins

Lennywins

135 posts

Wood - Squire

Wow, people are posting so fast that if I try to respond to something, by the time I've typed it up there are already three posts between mine and the one I'm responding to. Guess I should just type faster...

 

Posted Feb 11, '08 at 10:33pm

RaptorExx

RaptorExx

1,481 posts

Gold - Duke

oi, that's what I said in the beginning!!! XD either way, I'm not changing my mind, while the child does yes get the 'death penalty', as you call it, but think of it like this, if the mother lets the child live, she will never truely love that child the way she could love a child not forced and ect upon her, therefore, it would be better that the child dnot be born, lest suffer the sad eyes of the mother when they fall upon the child

understand my logic?

 
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