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Girl... troubles

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 9:58pm

hatswa

hatswa

37 posts

Iron - Serf

So this is how it goes... i ask a girl to be my girlfriend and i've known her for a while like 4 years and she's one of my best friends. Initialy she says yes, then she tells me that it's kinda awkward because we've known each other for such a long time. So she basicly broke up with me. any advice?

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 10:24pm

HiddenDistance

HiddenDistance

1,202 posts

Wood - Lord

Move on and try to forget about it.  Investing yourself in it more is unlikely to bring you anything other then pain & heartache.

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 10:26pm

delossantosj

delossantosj

968 posts

Wood - Knight

ya dont try and obsesse... sort of flirt with her more... i tried to just keep going after this girl and ya jus brouight more heart ache.... so just flirt with her now and see were that goes

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 10:52pm

hatswa

hatswa

37 posts

Iron - Serf

oh... ok then... I guess thats for the best then...

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 10:58pm

delossantosj

delossantosj

968 posts

Wood - Knight

ya dont give up though.. just make it seem lik youre not that interested but still keep the doors open. give signs but not to heavy

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 11:00pm

trayzrulz

trayzrulz

347 posts

Iron - Knight

If the her "yes to go out with you" and  "this is awkward" comments were within a week... I wouldn't exactly call it a break-up.  It just seems like she wasn't sure about dating you in the first place.  Did she actually say "I don't want to date you anymore?"  Because technically you could interprete her "awkward" comment as questioning you relationship as opposed to calling it a break-up.  Just have a face-to-face chat with her.  Ask her if she rather be your friend or date you.  It might be tough (if the answer is to stay friends), but you might as well find out what she truly thinks.  Who knows, maybe she feels awkward but deep down wants to try and date you!

P.S.  If you have more questions or girl troubles.  You should go to the "If you have a question about girls..." thread.  There are already 40 pages of similar conversations. I frequent there often to give advice!  :D

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 11:05pm

delossantosj

delossantosj

968 posts

Wood - Knight

40 pages.... who likes that....

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 11:08pm

hatswa

hatswa

37 posts

Iron - Serf

Alright, and yeah trayzrulz she did say it within the week.

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 11:19pm

trayzrulz

trayzrulz

347 posts

Iron - Knight

40 pages.... who likes that....
It's not 40 pages on one problem.  It's just a popular thread discussing various relationship questions about guys & girls.

she did say it within the week.
So, don't be super bummed about the "break-up" then.  She probably wasn't too sure about dating you in the first place.  Just talk to her and I think your confusions will go away!

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 11:20pm

trayzrulz

trayzrulz

347 posts

Iron - Knight

**and apparently it's actually over 70 pages...

 

Posted Nov 2, '09 at 11:21pm

hatswa

hatswa

37 posts

Iron - Serf

Ok i'll try that then. Thanks

 
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