I know some of you guys know me and, I'm a happy person right hehehe but a week ago, my gf broke up with me and we keep trying to make each other jealous, unfortunately both did get jealous. Now were in a big fight. What should I do.
I would start by growing up a bit. Revenge, although it may seem like a good idea at the time, is a horrible idea. If you care about her at all then talk to her, and just be honest about your thoughts and feelings. Avoid blame and do not lose your temper. You both may be able to mend the relationship, but even if not you will at least be able to walk away from it without animosity toward eachother.
But revenge sounds a little bit..ehmm..instead of that you could try explaining your feelings (if you want to get back together with her) to her. And yeah....
MEND a relationship? Does it ever works? When a relationship is falling apart, the only thing you can do is quicken the process. He is far beyond the point where the things can be mended.
Depends on what you are trying to mend and what you want it to become. For example, it may be possible to mend a horrible break-up so the ones involved remain friends, or at least can still comfortably hang out with friends they have in common. Or mend a calm break-up over something stupid to a stronger relationship (I'd guess this to be much more rare, but if the ones involved can work over whatever the bump was that made them break, they may very well come out stronger).
Such cases may be more of exceptions, though. But it can work, and it is possible to do other things than speeding up the process of breaking apart.
In this case, I'd say you should just try to make peace with her. You don't sound like you particularly want her back, so just try to make the situation between you more calm if you don't want to fight any more.
I agree with coldplaya. Even if you don't want to repair the relationship so you two can date again it's still in your best interests to smooth things over with her. Other girls will see that you are mature and honest and they like that, no matter what they say. Also it is great practice for all relationships in your life. I can tell you that serious relationships involve a lot of mending and repairing of mistakes in order to keep them working, and that requires honesty and open communication. Trust me, I learned that the hard way with my first wife, but it has helped me tremendously with my current wife. We would have separated long ago if we didn't have such an honest communication.
I stand by my first opinion. Moreover, I can't understand why you want to be with someone that has lost interest in you. Even more if you don't love her anymore.
I don't understand why you can't still be friends with the girl you had sex with? I mean, you were IN her, right? I'm still friends with two out of the three girlfriends I slept with.
Oh wait, you're thirteen. Woops. Oyah, no. Who cares if you guys broke up, middle school relationships never last and are usually pretty stupid. Besides, she doesn't really love you, so don't get upset and move on.
