This is going to be such a bro post. It's also going to contain a lot of racial generalisations that you will hopefully see are not actually racist.

A whole group of people that were like "Hey, what's up?" but as soon as someone else came in, I was discarded

Dude, I feel that. This defined my years 5 and 6, along with such choice lines like "do you know how much you suck?" "we consider you to be a lower class of human" and making family trees that involved the entire class except me.

Even better, give her your Strip account.

Dude NO LOL. She is a real person and a separate entity, as opposed to the fictional manifestation of a concept!

So no mention of black girls? Racist

Dude I live in Australia. There are few Africans, and honestly most of them are refugees who haven't yet learnt English! (If you're talking "dark" and not just black, I have to say many of the Indian girls are smoking hot, but their cultural systems generally disallow them from interracial relations anyway.)

But too Asian for white girls and too white for Asian girls. That does not make sense. It should be personality

Dude that's kind of the point, that is to say, it's about how your cultural background affects your values and how you relate to people. Those from one cultural background being brought up in a country which has an entirely different culture have a pretty hard time figuring out their cultural identity. I can't speak any Asian languages (for shame) etc. but I look Asian so the only whites that would even notice I exist are eggs (yellow on the inside lol). So I generally get judged both ways, however somebody who is the same would be able to see past that.

You have to have your **** together before you go into a relationship? Say it isn't so!

Dude it isn't so :P

Well rather one school of thought is that having relationships while you are still developing is part and parcel of the formative process where you generally make mistakes and break each others' hearts. There's a lot of liability (much of which can cause lasting damage) but nothing ventured nothing gained. My upbringing was severely biased towards risk minimisation and thus it was socially conserative, and strongly discouraged dating in high school. I used to have a problem with this because I felt like I was missing out on something, but there are some benefits to making less mistakes and being more resilient and assured first (not saying this works for everybody).

The other advantage of having your **** together is that you have a disposable income and can manage your time. This means you can afford pricey book presents, horse riding lessons, walks on the beach followed by dinner at a fancy beachside restaurant which you shout because it's her birthday, and the gas bill for all of the above, and a couple of other things besides ;_; Now I have to study way hard or I'm going to get murdered in study group and nephrology journal club.

Being specifically humiliated, or being ignored when you don't want to be?

They're bad for different reasons, but my experience was a seesaw between both. Like the only time they had anything to do with me was when they wanted to pick on somebody LOL. Not even a "hi how are you today", more like "oh it's that weird annoying nerd guy, maybe I'll throw a couple of insults/physically harrass him when I feel like it".

Anyway, not a pissing contest and I think safe to say we've moved on from that era. LIKE A BOSS.

So give the real person/seperate entity an Armor Games account already

She will sign up for one if and when she wants to, and it's not my place to dictate or demand otherwise :P I'm well trained dude. And she's feisty.

I have an Indian friend who is dating a white girl.

Ever seen Bend it Like Beckham? Quite a good representation of what that's like. I also have colleagues in similar situations... one is Muslim and going out with a Hindu. She planned to tell her parents she was a lesbian just to shock them horribly, then say "well actually no I'm not but I am dating a non-Muslim" LOL.

Nice generalizations there. My teacher has a son that dated in high school and married that girl. They are happy with a few kids now.

The highschool/college sweetheart story used to be more of the norm. Now it's rare and usually falls apart (for a good example though refer to John and Carlie). I suspect it's something to do with cultural shifts that change the way we see and focus on ourselves. Both my gf and I know for a fact that we actually might have known each other from as early as 2005 (based on the same circumstances that led her to knowing one of my best friends since then), but that it was better that we hadn't because we probably would not have been able to stand each other then!

Haha. I don't think that she would make it out alive

Chillingly, if you live in parts of South East Asia, or in the Middle East, chances are that this statement would be literally true. On occasion the cultural traditions of "honour killing" (where the family of an eloper arranges for their death by murder in order to preserve the family's honour) follows said eloper to countries where all kinds of murder are actually illegal.