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Ernie15
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I've noticed the increase in threads being made about problems with relationships and dating. Now, I have no problem with the subject matter. No, my problem is with the amount of threads people are creating about it.

Judging by all these threads being made about the same thing, it's safe to say it's inevitable for these questions to be asked; and since the answers to these relationship/dating questions are generally very similar, putting all the questions in one thread saves time and posting.

No, this is not a thread where you specifically ask me for advice; I don't know very much about this subject. I'm simply the guy who has created the thread so you can post your questions for anybody to answer.

So if you have a question about dating or relationships, or anything along those lines, ask it here, wait for someone to reply here, and don't make a new thread about it!

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Ernie15
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My dad wont let me date and im 12


Does he think you're too young to be dating? I would suggest you ask him how old he was when he started dating, just to make sure he isn't being a hypocrite.

Don't go out with a girl just for street credz.


That's right. Do it for you, do it for her, and not for anybody else.
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My dad wont let me date and im 12

Hah. I'm fifteen, and I'm still not aloud to date anyone. It's mostly my brother's fault, he never gets any work done, whether she's around or not.
That's right. Do it for you, do it for her, and not for anybody else.

Yes. Yeeesssss.
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i have one question because most of the people here are guys what does it mean if a guy always finding for you following you keeps on looking at you like he is some kind of stalker and if he needs to borrow something he has to go to me all the way in the back and borrow from me instead from the people around him in front and always wants to stay beside me i don't really understands

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ok, u left ok key info but im asuming ur a girl. and well u already know the answer, why did u post it? he likes u, not hard. the male brain is not that complex.
but the question is, do u like him? (don, don, don!)

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he has a girlfriend but after he told me he broke up with her and i don't like him

Ernie15
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If you want this fine gentleman to stop pestering you with his feelings, you have to do a better job showing him that you aren't interested. If just telling him you don't want him doesn't work, you'll have to somehow convince him that he and you shouldn't be together. People like that can sometimes be hard to drive away. The best way to get him out of your life is to make him not want to be with you.

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i tried everything showing him that i am better than him in soccer basketball swimming volleyball and i even say no always if he asks if he can go to my house i try to avoid him but he keeps on coming to me
and even if i already beet him in video games even if i act girly he is still ok with it

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I had a couple of dates in my life. And they sucked. Hoping one day I will fine the right girl someday. Just not now.

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well u have two options,
move to antartica
or
tell him to go away. yeah i know its evil and all but whatever. or u said he had a girlfriend? try hanging out with his girlfriend. if they hate each other, he would stay away. use her as ur personal shield. either that or try to get them back together

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i have one question because most of the people here are guys what does it mean if a guy always finding for you following you keeps on looking at you like he is some kind of stalker and if he needs to borrow something he has to go to me all the way in the back and borrow from me instead from the people around him in front and always wants to stay beside me i don't really understands

He probly has a crush on you. Just sayin'.
If you want this fine gentleman to stop pestering you with his feelings, you have to do a better job showing him that you aren't interested.

Sometimes that can do the opposite of what you want... For some reason, jealousy [what usually happens, I think] can make it even worse.
i tried everything showing him that i am better than him in soccer basketball swimming volleyball and i even say no always if he asks if he can go to my house i try to avoid him but he keeps on coming to me
and even if i already beet him in video games even if i act girly he is still ok with it

You must admire, he won't give up. Yeah, he probly has a crush on you.
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hey guys. my name's Shelly . i've been really depressed lately because my boyfriend and i split up because he cheated on me. i really like him though but i'm not sure what to do. if i ask him out, then i really don't know how he will respond. thanks guys

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if i ask him out, then i really don't know how he will respond.


Well, if you really love him, you can ask him to get back together. If he doesn't want to then there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Exactly. You will fine the right person soon.

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thanks guys

Ernie15
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Sometimes that can do the opposite of what you want...


Don't necessarily make him think that you're boring, but surely do make him feel like he's boring.

my boyfriend and i split up because he cheated on me


Did you ever ask him what caused him to cheat on you?
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