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Posted Apr 15, '12 at 12:18pm

danielo

danielo

1,364 posts

it could realy work, if we were in a diesny movie. let me reminde you three wonderfull words, that made our world a worst place:
"pocket knife" - they are getting out easily, but harder to put them back in the pocket
"revenge" - oh, it will come, in the hally, in the street, even in middle of the school, using thuse words ^ and V.
"gang" - they are never going solo. and again, its not a disney movie wher the fat ginger have a gang who will betray him in the first fight. they will kick your *** befor you will notice.

the way i got away?
1) be friendly. i know, its sound pathetic {and even gay}, but its work. if they call you, come {not too close, know how to leave without alot of rudness}, chat a little, dont make them see you as a pray, but as a weak member of the gang.
2)know wher to walk around. ther are places, like at class with friends or at a regular spot, wher you can sit and talk without any Interaction with them.
3)if that all dont work, dont become karate-kid, but also dont become a sitting duck. if your friends stand in your back, and you stand too, its making a much stronger wall than just ignoring and waiting. stand up, dont let them completly abuse you, but dont fight back. just let them know it wont just by-pass. its even better if you able to chat with more nicer peoples in the bully group. thats how i did it. i talked politics with them, helped them a little in need, sometime,  when "invited", talking with them. as i said, dont become a pray, become a weak member, then they wont bully you, they will teas with you.
and if most, fight back. you will get ther respect. never the leader, but lesser members. then hope you wont get number 1 and number 3 in the first list...

Conclusion - dont be pray, be a weak member, dont get to exited and become swiss cheese.

Good luck dude.

PS if thats not work, join to the French Foreign Legion. they welcome everyone.

 

Posted Apr 15, '12 at 12:30pm

danielo

danielo

1,364 posts

thepunisher93! DUDE!

jsut saw your post!
do you want to kill him?1 are you crazy!?
its like draw a knife in a sword fight!
you think the bully dont have better equipes on him than that? its like mexico will try to send some tanks on USA!
it only make him realy realy mad, with the excuse
"i've only protected myslef".

and never, never kill anyone! its not the sollution!
this kind of talks make you find yourself in the clock tower with a gun, shooting at your fellow student below!

and by the way, what beer is it? does it sold in Israel too?
im curios.....

 

Posted Apr 15, '12 at 3:42pm

157C

157C

58 posts

I think the punisher is a bully because he put a picture of brass knuckles and said he wants to kill him, he has problems and he shouldn't be here. We need to speak up to people like him and we need to stop bullying!

 

Posted Apr 15, '12 at 4:05pm

danielo

danielo

1,364 posts

from this post, dear, i see you are still young.
its not good and evil. im preety sure that once in your life, even if it was as a joke or even if you didnt noticed, you 'bullied' someone. i know, by a look to the past, that i did soemthing bad, when i was very young. i apologized for it, but yet - its very easy to be a "bully". it just count as doing something to another human, you ca neven not knowing you did.
but - its mostly considered as picking up on someone, like wolves in the wild. showing the 'rank'-who is better. what punisher did is make him feel safe, or actualy beign safe. as i kid, i dreamed of having a short sword in my bag, i dreamd to poison a "bully", but after a while, its all just look so silly. think to yourself what could happen if i realy did? if punisher realy smash this bottle and kill all the bullies? if you will harm badly one of them? its just some kids who dont know yet to know that ther are Results for ther deeds.

punisher is not a victim. now i can see that thuse bullies were seriose, and maybe he saved his life by his did. i know that once i got in a fight, and sience then its like i leveled up.
just remmember - they are kids just like you! some of them maybe will becaome criminals, some of them are now, but most of them are borde duds who try to have fun with ther friends.
afcours, if you are talking about the stealing abusing kind of bully, you may need to stand up for once to get out of the victim list. it may be a long process, but it will end it. you just need a backup of friends, be strong {i dont mean pysicly, but mental}. and yet, i dont sure. the best way - stay out of the radar. dont try to be a hero.

i know that i Contradictory myself, but its because its an hard question. i prefer the list i did the last post.

and punisher, can you tell me more about these 'bullies'? because they might be borde kids, and might be 'gangsta wanaabes'- from them you need to get away.

 

Posted Apr 15, '12 at 4:32pm

EmperorPalpatine

EmperorPalpatine

4,970 posts

he put a picture of brass knuckles

He put a picture of a kite handle.

and said he wants to kill him

Where did he say that? He said he'd fight strongly if they attack him.

he has problems

Not really. We all have a 'fight or flight' reaction to events. He's wired to stand his ground. It's not his fault.

 

Posted Apr 15, '12 at 4:39pm

danielo

danielo

1,364 posts

lol, im just studing to my psychology exam, and ther will be a question about 'fight of flight'. thanks for remind me to continue studing. rofl ;)

 

Posted Apr 16, '12 at 8:38am

MetalHeart

MetalHeart

214 posts

Bullies are always angry and want to hurt maybe they have problems at home or want to make friends and don't have a control about there feelings or they are sick brainily and spiritly ,etc

 

Posted Apr 16, '12 at 8:56am

danielo

danielo

1,364 posts

they are kids metal, not psycos. get to the page befor, i said what i belive is teh point.

so 157c? what do you have to say so far about what i said? whats your opinion?

 

Posted Apr 16, '12 at 4:17pm

thepunisher93

thepunisher93

1,858 posts

jsut saw your post!
do you want to kill him?1 are you crazy!?
its like draw a knife in a sword fight!
you think the bully dont have better equipes on him than that? its like mexico will try to send some tanks on USA!
it only make him realy realy mad, with the excuse
"i've only protected myslef".

and never, never kill anyone! its not the sollution!
this kind of talks make you find yourself in the clock tower with a gun, shooting at your fellow student below!

and by the way, what beer is it? does it sold in Israel too?
im curios.....

Only once I needed to use brass knuckles and I once threw the broken bottle (Which in jured bully's leg)
Where did I say I wanted to kill them?
When ppl deem u crazy enough to hit someone with a bottle, they think twice b4 messing with you.
And this beer is Bario

 

Posted Apr 16, '12 at 4:19pm

thepunisher93

thepunisher93

1,858 posts

I think the punisher is a bully because he put a picture of brass knuckles and said he wants to kill him, he has problems and he shouldn't be here. We need to speak up to people like him and we need to stop bullying!

WTF?

 
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