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Posted Sep 25, '13 at 9:39am

thebluerabbit

thebluerabbit

2,918 posts

So I got it right first time, that is whY I told you to reread me post.

lurker me is here to give a little advice so i can keep reading this interesting (until the "reread my post" spam) argument.

when someone doesnt understand you theres a reason they dont understand you. instead of going into the "your stupid for not understanding me, try again" war can you just use different words/give examples/use simpler words?

    Simpler words would be nice

Fighting doesn't solve anything. All you do is perpetuate a culture of violence by advocating beating up anyone who so much as offends you. While I will never say you do not have the right to defend yourself, I'm certain from your attitude that more effort on your part could have gone into avoiding conflict.

kind of like the example above. if someone didnt understand something you say most chances are he wouldnt understand it even if he reread it. if you want a flowing understandable argument you have to co-operate

thank you... expression teacher out

 

Posted Sep 25, '13 at 3:53pm

thepunisher93

thepunisher93

1,859 posts

     So I got it right first time, that is whY I told you to reread me post.

lurker me is here to give a little advice so i can keep reading this interesting (until the "reread my post" spam) argument.

when someone doesnt understand you theres a reason they dont understand you. instead of going into the "your stupid for not understanding me, try again" war can you just use different words/give examples/use simpler words?

        Simpler words would be nice

    Fighting doesn't solve anything. All you do is perpetuate a culture of violence by advocating beating up anyone who so much as offends you. While I will never say you do not have the right to defend yourself, I'm certain from your attitude that more effort on your part could have gone into avoiding conflict.

kind of like the example above. if someone didnt understand something you say most chances are he wouldnt understand it even if he reread it. if you want a flowing understandable argument you have to co-operate

thank you... expression teacher out

English is not my mother tongue, I write responses as simple as I can, usually it can not get any simpler than that.
Usully, the senteces I write, are the only way for me to communicate what I am traying to say with out any other option.

 

Posted Sep 25, '13 at 5:05pm

thebluerabbit

thebluerabbit

2,918 posts

i havnt meant you specifically. was just a general thing for everybody. i just took your quote because it was the easiest to reach

 

Posted Sep 26, '13 at 3:13pm

mbbs112

mbbs112

174 posts

People in America are sissys nowadays lol because they get beat up,dont tell their mother then end up doing suicide and then their parents wonder what the heck did they now know? I was a sissy in america as i was born there and i wasnt taught to fight but then i came to Pakistan and i had to go to school here for a whole year so first of all lots of kids would make fun of me and pull m tie and i cried once when somebody ripped my tie(xD) but then right at that moment i got really angry and i beat up the guy who was 2 inches taller than me very easily and then after that day i wasnt a sissy anymore and i would protect my friends from the same guy so everybody who gets bullied out there: Stand up for yourselves or your problem is never going to be solved .

 

Posted Sep 26, '13 at 4:50pm

Maverick4

Maverick4

3,707 posts

A whole two inches? Bro, you are a stud.

 

Posted Sep 26, '13 at 5:22pm

thebluerabbit

thebluerabbit

2,918 posts

amazing... i bet the tough water, air and ground changed your whole personality. way to go...

 

Posted Sep 26, '13 at 6:56pm

Maverick4

Maverick4

3,707 posts

Are you kidding? I heard in Pakistan that the water is so tough, when they want to have a drink, they have to hunt it down and kill it with their bare hands.

 

Posted Sep 26, '13 at 7:03pm

thepunisher93

thepunisher93

1,859 posts

People in America are sissys nowadays lol because they get beat up,dont tell their mother then end up doing suicide and then their parents wonder what the heck did they now know? I was a sissy in america as i was born there and i wasnt taught to fight but then i came to Pakistan and i had to go to school here for a whole year so first of all lots of kids would make fun of me and pull m tie and i cried once when somebody ripped my tie(xD) but then right at that moment i got really angry and i beat up the guy who was 2 inches taller than me very easily and then after that day i wasnt a sissy anymore and i would protect my friends from the same guy so everybody who gets bullied out there: Stand up for yourselves or your problem is never going to be solved .

Shabaash,
Good Job .

amazing... i bet the tough water, air and ground changed your whole personality. way to go...

His story is pretty much like me.
First day at school 2nd grade, 10 elder boys beat me up and I was regularly beaten afterwards.
I was called a village oaf(as we moved from village to the city) .
At that time though I was out numbered but notion of using something other than my body to fight was kind of dishonorable.
But one day, one of them hit me with a crushed tin can and I lost it, I bit him on his hand and then opened his forehead with the same can, when problems went to teacher, he refused to name any one, lucky for me.

 

Posted Sep 26, '13 at 10:45pm

pangtongshu

pangtongshu

8,715 posts

Or...or..instead of teaching kids to fight and assert dominance, which could further bullying, why not further education on social acceptance?

 

Posted Sep 27, '13 at 6:18am

mbbs112

mbbs112

174 posts

the story took place when i was in 3rd grade xD

 
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