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Posted Apr 23, '12 at 2:13pm

TheGr8est

TheGr8est

721 posts

Bullied people usually become bullies. Thts the way life works.
I feel bad 4 bullies personally.

 

Posted Apr 23, '12 at 3:20pm

thebluerabbit

thebluerabbit

5,372 posts

Bullied people usually become bullies


i doubt that. usually those who get bullied are physically or socially weak and will not be able to bully someone else even if they wanted to
 

Posted Apr 23, '12 at 6:11pm

Somewhat49

Somewhat49

1,669 posts

i doubt that. usually those who get bullied are physically or socially weak and will not be able to bully someone else even if they wanted to

there is always someone weaker to bully.
 

Posted Apr 23, '12 at 7:08pm

xAyjAy

xAyjAy

4,906 posts

Bullied people usually become bullies


you are right, the punches/kicks/swearing turn you into a bully if a bully uses punches/kicks/cuss at you. it is like if a vampire bites you, you turn automatically in a vampire. so, if a bully bullies you you become a bully. its a law. *eyes roles*

i doubt that. usually those who get bullied are physically or socially weak and will not be able to bully someone else even if they wanted to


well, probably you are right but there are people like me who got bullied and hate to use violence because i want not to let people experience the same pain that i experienced. and i was not weak, except you call someone who gets bullied by 30 people at once weak. show me a child that does not know how to punch defending him-/herself against 30 other childs. i was ten and they bullied me for two years. sometimes they are HUNTING you just to bullie you. and if you tell it someone you give their anger some fuel. only love and a system that prevents the beginning of bullieing. it is too sad that there is not such a system so i had only the love of my mother or i had killed myself just to end this chapter of sadness.

there is always someone weaker to bully.


yes but is up to them to endure it or to do something to stop it. i got out the circle of being a victim.
 

Posted Apr 23, '12 at 7:13pm

xAyjAy

xAyjAy

4,906 posts

only love and a system that prevents the beginning of bullieing could stop/prevent bullies from bullieing others.


sorry for the double post, i forgot something.

also, some people like to bullie others because they have problems and the only way to forget the problem they bully others. that or because they need to have the feeling to be stronger than someone else.
 

Posted Apr 23, '12 at 7:43pm

dair5

dair5

3,473 posts

you are right, the punches/kicks/swearing turn you into a bully if a bully uses punches/kicks/cuss at you.


I don't know about usally, but it does happen. My little sister used to get bullied in school, as a result she took it out on me.

yes but is up to them to endure it or to do something to stop it.


Sometimes stopping it can be harder than letting it continue.

also, some people like to bullie others because they have problems and the only way to forget the problem they bully others.


Exactly. Which is why some people who are bullied continue to take it out on other people. Ironic, but it happens.
 

Posted Apr 24, '12 at 5:57pm

xAyjAy

xAyjAy

4,906 posts

it depends on the people. i was a victim of bullies and i didnt bully others. i stored the anger and then i exploded and punched the one that bullied me in my rage and anger but it was like i was controlled by someone else and as like i was beside me, watching while i punched back. that is a reason why i wont bully other people.

 

Posted Apr 25, '12 at 3:44am

danielo

danielo

1,766 posts

sure, ther are some bullies who "hit to forget {hehehe 'eat to forget'}.
but ther are the ones who "bring" it from home. they see how ther parents behave, acting like tehy own the world: yelling in resturants, thinking '**** the police'/'the contry'/'the presedebt'/whatever. do the kid feel he 'own' the world too. no one will tell him what to do.

and ther are peoples who come from what called in Israel "good families". ther parents dont abuse them, they dont live in poor. but yet, they can one day, out of bordeness, to shoot a taxi driver {realy happened} or beat up peoples. they do it, because they can. because its "fun". we are closer to animals than you think. they jsut want to show everyone ther "rank", and feel superior.

 

Posted Apr 25, '12 at 8:38am

xAyjAy

xAyjAy

4,906 posts

sure, ther are some bullies who "hit to forget {hehehe 'eat to forget'}.
but ther are the ones who "bring" it from home. they see how ther parents behave, acting like tehy own the world: yelling in resturants, thinking '**** the police'/'the contry'/'the presedebt'/whatever. do the kid feel he 'own' the world too. no one will tell him what to do.


yes, because they have nobody to tell/teach them what is good or bad. but define good or bad, everyone have different views of bad and good.

and ther are peoples who come from what called in Israel "good families". ther parents dont abuse them, they dont live in poor. but yet, they can one day, out of bordeness, to shoot a taxi driver {realy happened} or beat up peoples. they do it, because they can. because its "fun". we are closer to animals than you think. they jsut want to show everyone ther "rank", and feel superior.


that is the problem, a drunken girl lighted in berlin a car on fire just because she was bored.
 

Posted Apr 25, '12 at 7:45pm

157C

157C

58 posts

That's just creepy did she really set a car on fire just because she was bored?

 
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