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Posted May 4, '12 at 2:41pm

thepyro222

thepyro222

1,986 posts

The way to stop a bully is to stand up to him. I did, I never got bullied in school, and the few idiots that tried, I stood up to them. Man up, pick up your balls and stand up to him. It doesn't matter if you lose a fight, he'll still back off. Bullies pick apart weakness. If there is an absence of weakness, if you're strong, then he'll back off. That's it. Talking to a teacher or a counselor will only show how weak you are. Shut up and get up.

 

Posted May 4, '12 at 11:21pm

Nabbit

Nabbit

16 posts

I've never been physically bullied, so I can't compare it with teasing and say which is worse, but teasing shouldn't be taken lightly.

All you have to do is take one situation, over-exaggerate the experience, get a lot of people to join in (bonus points if the people are the victim's close friends other people who can help), and surround the victim in all of it, just when he/she is at his/her weakest.

Very true, when I was in middle school bullies would attack me because I was a complete loner. Their weapon was my autisitc brother. I was always afraid they would go after my brother if I stood up to them. So for a long time I had to take their insults about him and me when I had no friends to help me. I felt like everyone had bad opinions about me even if they weren't involved in the bullying, it stripped away what little confidence I had to begin with.

Eventually it became apparent that they were simply using my brother to attack me, so I stood up to them. All I had to do was fire a couple of insults back at them. So simple. It's really strange how bullies can come up with these intimitating auras of dominance yet be easy to overcome. :p

 

Posted May 4, '12 at 11:46pm

KhaoticSniper

KhaoticSniper

199 posts

what if it's your older Bro and u can't Fight back cause he will just keep Beating me up more and more?

 

Posted May 5, '12 at 6:34am

thepunisher93

thepunisher93

1,859 posts

what if it's your older Bro and u can't Fight back cause he will just keep Beating me up more and more?

Shank him :)
Just kidding talk to parents.

 

Posted May 5, '12 at 7:49am

beckitten27

beckitten27

99 posts

Bullying sucks!

 

Posted May 5, '12 at 7:57am

nichodemus

nichodemus

12,166 posts

Knight

what if it's your older Bro and u can't Fight back cause he will just keep Beating me up more and more?

Parents....that was a duh moment.

 

Posted May 5, '12 at 9:29am

thebluerabbit

thebluerabbit

2,917 posts

what if it's your older Bro and u can't Fight back cause he will just keep Beating me up more and more?

and what is the difference? bullies wont bully you unless they feel that you cant fight back. the difference is that parents can actually care more then the teachers so that might be an even easier case. again, who knows it might not but the fact he is your older brother doesnt necesairly mean that its more difficult. bullying in general is just a horibble experience

 

Posted May 5, '12 at 11:29am

Santi_

Santi_

444 posts

bullies wont bully you unless they feel that you cant fight back.

Ah, but what is happening more often now, is that fighting back (metaphorically and/ physically) will just encourage them more. Either that, or redirect blame unto you if anyone would happen to see the event.
Obviously if you don't fight back, you become their personal "punching bag." At one point, if they even get suspended, or expelled, they won't stop.
Maybe the worst part of it all, is that said bully's parents/gaurdians could care less. Which is why bullying may never end. Consequences at school won't effect a child as much if there aren't any consequences at home.

 

Posted May 6, '12 at 1:46pm

danielo

danielo

1,397 posts

kill him. wishper " mother, take your son, your elder son, that you loved, and rise him for sacrefice for the lord ".

lol joking.

the main reason for this is Grudge between the brothers. or if that his way to "puke" all of his anger' on his brother.
but mostly, this is very naturly. the big brother, sience his littel brothers are born, have a secret hate for them. most of us push ut deep to ther Subconscious, but sometime it pup out, in way of cursing and beating. its his way to say to you "im the bigger, im the stronger, you wont steal my parents love". its like a pack of wolves, the elder will control the pack, so he have to show his rank to his brothers. so, you dont have realy what to do. he is bigger, and will stay like that for a while. yuo can always pay back when yoounger will be an advantage {lol again}.
talling to his parents will make it worst, fighting back too {they all cause his scummbag brain to react as "he try to steal it from us! my... precious "...

sorry, i just saw the entire LoTR las week, ill be like that for a while... {try it! all of them one after another}.

so, for a summary, taughe life...
in my family its not happaning, cause im the elder {lol}.

 

Posted May 7, '12 at 8:51pm

randumbness

randumbness

56 posts

Best way to avoid a fight walk away from the people trying to start something. Some people challenged me and a friend to a fight we walked off they backed down which was good for them. Make friends my friend Vinnie would probably back me up in a fight you do not want to mess with him. I know a guy named Skelator(yes it's a nickname) if u know someone like him you know a lot of tough people. Self defense a good idea I carry 3 compasses ( I'm not overdoing it) saved me from having to get into 2 fights). Theres people I'll back up in a fight in a second and they'd back me up. I mean I dont look tough  I'm 6'6 wear glasses and am pretty much a nerd. Even nerds know how to fight. Most people know I'm a calm collected person , but most dont know I had anger issues and I can control it well but if someone tries to fight me and I snap they would be in the hospital no exaggeration. I have never been attacked I've been challenged. One guy tried to start something with his "posse of five guys" with me I had to back down when he tried to get me to fight him one on one I declined. It takes more than a push and an insult.
If your ever in a fight here are some rules so you cant get in legal trouble if on school grounds make sure the person your fighting hits you first then you can legally hit them back once ( it sucks I no)  then its self defense.
I just try not to get in fights I,ve only got in one fight if you could consider it that.
If a friend of mine gets bullied I stand up for them most people know and respect me.

 
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