The claim is hardly outlandish, and I think the burden of proof is on you anyway.
Where did you get this idea? "Gender identity" and "gender role" are informative. They are unambiguous. They are easy to interpret. When you truncate them to "gender", you cause needless confusion.
Simple; if a person's gender identity is their identity related to their gender, and gender = sex, then gender identity would as a result be a person's identity related to their sex. Surely you aren't trying to argue
that, are you? Same deal for gender role.
No. Psychiatric forms aside, they generally have no interest in your gender identity.
If you're in the hospital, waiting to receive treatment for a urinary tract infection, does it matter if you identify as the opposite sex? No.
What do they ask for? Gender.
Medical care is one context in which they likely do care about sex rather than gender. And what do they ask for? Sex, actually. At least for the forms I've filled out.
Outside of medical care, I can think of one other context where sex is more relevant than gender, and that's in legal matters wherein sex matters for some reason, typically related to the eligibility of social programs/marriage/etc based on sex (whether or not they
should be based on sex is a different matter, and the answer there is usually no).
There are plenty of contexts where people care about gender and not sex - marketing, for example. One's preferences are a lot more valuable than one's sex when being marketed to. Or if you're filling out a form for a club or group, your body is a lot less relevant than your presentation, as you're probably going to show up there and are unlikely to have to undergo medical testing when you do.
Again, you are making the same mistake. They are explicitly referring to sex. [emphasis]That is what gender means!![/emphasis]
Typically, they're referring in sum to a false binary wherein all people with female bodies have female preferences and all people with male bodies have male preferences. As that isn't the case, you have to instead consider what aspects of that binary they actually care about. And it's usually not the physical parts. That's what I'm arguing here.
Precisely.
I don't follow. My assertion was that most uses of the word gender refer to things other than sex. This was in contrast to your belief that most uses of the word gender refer to sex. As such, there are a lot of people (as implied, the vast majority of people) using the word gender to mean things other than sex. Are you agreeing with my argument, or just trying to be witty?