I'm glad I found this thread, because I was thinking about making one to see if there was anyone else who shared an interest in Simology, and apparently such people do exist in this community. For the sake of igniting a discussion about one of my favorite game series of all time, I will answer every question you've provided above with an in-depth answer eventually. For now, just the first question. I don't have time to answer all of them in one night.
How do you play the Sims (1, 2, 3); what are your strategies?
I had different strategies depending on the game. I played all three, and all three games are fairly different, so my playing style differed along with them.
I got the first Sims game when I was 9, and I had no idea how to play it even after watching the tutorials, so for a while, my sims lived in unpainted houses with no floors or windows and with minimal furniture--whatever I could afford with $20,000. I didn't even know sims could get jobs for the longest time, so once I spent all the money in the household--I did a lot of experimenting with useless objects--I played with them until I got bored with what I could do with them. I got so frustrated with this playing style, though, that I eventually got my mom to look up cheat codes, and after that, I rosebudded the hell out of every family I made, and I gave my families great houses with all the finest furnishings, and I did a lot of experimenting with the "move_objects" cheat. I would build houses that extended to the other side of the street and were connected by an indoor walkway built directly above the street. It looked pretty stupid, but it wasn't bad for a 9-year-old's creation.
Then, when I got the Unleashed and Vacation expansions, my playing style became more mature, and my sims actually were able to work for (some of) their money, and I took them on nice vacations until that expansion stopped the entire game from working for me. I was disappointed when I found out I couldn't build my own vacation destinations, but I really only played the game with both expansions for about a month anyway before it stopped working.
Then, when I was 10, I got the Sims 2, which was
by far my favorite of the three. I could go on for hours--and I have before in conversation--about why I like the Sims 2 so much, but I'll try and keep it short for the sake of this page.
By this point, I already knew how to take care of sims, so that wasn't a problem for me. I was, however, very impressed with how much more you could do with build mode, so I built a lot of multi-story community lots that served no purpose whatsoever before I started really playing with people. Almost right away, I looked up cheat codes, and I didn't start giving my sims jobs until I was comfortable with the interface. After the Open For Business expansion, my entire playing style changed, and I would turn a few of my sims into rich business owners while my other working class sims became their employees. This was my favorite way of playing, in any sims game, and I was utterly destroyed when I could not install my favorite expansion pack on my newer computer this past winter break.
I could go on about my playing style in every other expansion, but I'd rather keep this post as short as possible for the people who are actually taking the time to read it.
Sims 3 was a huge letdown. It focused more on the individual sims than it did the greater scheme of things, and that made playing the game less fun for me. Other than randomly assigned bosses at work, my sims could not really work for other sims, and that made me less motivated to play. I did like how much you could do with the game, and if there was a way to combine Sims 2 Open For Business and Apartment Life with Sims 3 Ambitions, that would be my ideal Sims game.
I could go into far more detail than this about all of these games, but this post is already too long, and it's almost 4:30 A.M., so I'll cut it off here before I become hysterical with nostalgia.