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supersmiley
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im just trying to get some tips on how to get my ex back

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supersmiley
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its ruined ive been being nice to her but she keeps ignoring me...

Cenere
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its ruined ive been being nice to her but she keeps ignoring me...

Let her be. She ssem to need a little space, probably because of the reason she broke up.
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i gave her as much space as i could!!!

Zophia
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Just let her be without you for a while. If you really had a good friendship, she'll probably want to talk with you again in the future.
But you're young, so young that I don't know what sort of mindset your age group has... >_>

supersmiley
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yeah...shes not the most popular girl in school...so i know she wont be getting a boyfriend soon

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Nomad

its ruined ive been being nice to her but she keeps ignoring me...


If that's it, then it wasn't your fault. There must be SOMETHING that made her call it quits.

And you can't "keep being nice" to her, if you know what I mean. You gotta play with her http://unhappyface.net/ag_chat/skin4x-b/smilies/smile.png
Hate to break it to ya, but just being nice and talking to her, that gets boring after a while. You gotta make the relationship fun and spirited, not just nice. I mean, that's a good quality, not many people have that, but that's not all that you must do, you know?
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i gave her as much space as i could!!!

Yes, but try not to get her attention. Just, well, not ignore her, but let her have her time.
When we broke up, I had this feeling of really wanting to slap her hard and yell at her, because of ... that is personal. But I was really hurt and angry and more hurt (and thus I broke up). I guess that I would have hurt her badly if she had been near me..
supersmiley
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oh trust me i know how to play girls i do it all the time...but they have to talk to you before you can play them...and she wont even talk to me

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hm... hmmmmm...
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...
do you have any idea why she broke up with you?
i mean, i won't be of much help anyway, as i just recently got my first girlfriend, but if you can find out why she broke up with you, you can probably trace that back to how you have to change. and if she said "she wants to see other people(i'm not sure how often girls actually say that)", then she prolly already is.

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i tried to find out y she broke up with me! i asked her, i asked her friends, i asked my friends, i asked alot of ppul...i cant figure out y?

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well... what'd she say when this happened, if you don't mind my asking?

supersmiley
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she dissed me and walked away...and yes i said dis not kiss

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well, by the sounds of it, it's not worth it. i'ma say what alot of other people said: give her space. if she's being mean about it, then odds are she might be going through tough times. if she really did want to be friends, she'd talk to you eventually.

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shes not going through tough times...shes at the top of her game! she has tons of friends...shes a black belt! i mean what could be better?

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Could be something wrong at home. "Tough times" are hard to judge if you aren't in their shoes.

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