Sorry, but this isn't the right place to post this thread. I suggest the Tavern. This area is only for help about Armorgames and suggesting how to make Armorgames better.
Because I have told the user, no one should post here again. This should be locked soon
Don't worry, this may be moved directly to the Tavern, so you don't have to redo the thread again.
So she's about 11-14. At that age, most girls are developing annoying confidence, where they think that the world revolves around them. I don't think that talking to her would work, but It's worth a try.
..bbbaack to the topic, tli too little information to determine what advice to give you...how is she controlling you? where you go out? when you go out? what clothes to wear?