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random_player_of_ag
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Hello.

So yesterday I was talking about this subject with some friends, and I thought of creating a topic to discuss "bullying".

For those who don't know what is bullying please visit this link

So:

What do you think of it? And why.

Have you been bullied? Share your stories (if you want too)

What would you do to stop bullying?


Thread rules:

Forum rules apply.

Please don't spam

And if possible please justify your answer for any of the questions that were written up there.

Thank you and have a nice day.

PS to mods: If there is a thread talking about bullying I'm sorry, please lock this one then.

If this thread is in the wrong section I apologize, please move it to the right section.


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Pixie214
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I am against bullying for reasons that the person bullying can't change. So racsim, haircolour etc. But exceptions like obesity encourage that person to loose wait Though this is only to an extent beating them up etc. is harsh.

I have been bullied alot in my life mainly cos I'm smalle (was small). At primary school I was an easy target but Secondary School is great the bullies are better and I'm too much of an easy target so I went under the radar. In the way that I'm so pathetic that it would be harsh to bully me But hey I don't care if I'm being bullied it is never physical and words don't bother me so bullied can quite frankly go fuck themselves (sorry I remembered something aaahhh flashbacks)

Something I saw yesterday while at the park with my friends. These 7-8 year olds were on the swings next to us. A car pulls up and a woman storms out and starts berrating one of the boys beacuse her son came home upset. She is a dinnerlady at the school the kids go to. He, surprisingly, didn;t cry even when threatened with physical violence if he picks on the womans child again. At that point some other adults ca,me over and told her where to go and helped the child. I think it was the wrong thing to do for the mother to do that. she should have gone to the mother of that kid rather than directly to the kid.

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I have been bullied by this emo freak of a guy. Not physical bullying. For example, I had to do this project with him. Turns out that for the next six months (big project), he opposed all my ideas, wih=thout coming out with something credible, let me do all the interviews and surveys, complains to the teacher, whines and cries to her, causes the teacher to give me a low grade etc...and at the end, he claims part of the credit.

And some people always slander me for not turning up at training, though I have valid excuse from the school. Spreading rumors, hurling me with vulgarities everytime they set their eyes on me...

But thankfully, no one has beaten me up. No one dares. Look at those biceps man!

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Well, I'm Asian as a lot of people are guessing, we're all smart and have no life and such. Kindergarten through second grade was awesome. No one made fun of me, I had a lot of friends because I was funny and I was in short, happy. However, I live really far from the school I went to and their was a new school next to my house. From third grade to Sixth, those years were terrible. So many people wailed on me for being Asian, a bunch made fun of me having an abnormal large forehead, and I clammed up so I never was really funny or had many friends. Junior high improve since I am at a strict public school but still wailed on but of the things.

nichodemus
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So many people wailed on me for being Asian, a bunch made fun of me having an abnormal large forehead, and I clammed up so I never was really funny or had many friends.


Lucky I'm an Asian in an Asian school in an Asian country. Relax, after all your nose isn't as large. Joking.
brooke_1997
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Well... i've bullied someone before but i feel guilty now.. And it was an online type of bully.. to a classmate Lol :P

brenda_1997
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Well... i've bullied someone before but i feel guilty now.. And it was an online type of bully.. to a classmate Lol :P


Well, Brooke it was both of us who bullied her. And I feel sorry for doing that. But still she snitched on the teacher..We didn't get in much trouble though. But I regret doing that.
nichodemus
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For the record, my classmates(not me) are 'bullying' some teachers on blogs, posting things about them. Not that they know about it, but the whole class and some from other people practically do.

random_player_of_ag
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Well... i've bullied someone before but i feel guilty now.. And it was an online type of bully.. to a classmate Lol :P

Well, Brooke it was both of us who bullied her. And I feel sorry for doing that. But still she snitched on the teacher..We didn't get in much trouble though. But I regret doing that.


Well you should be sorry, unless you had a good reason to bully her.

I have been bullied alot in my life mainly cos I'm smalle (was small)


Yeah... I know what that is.. at least I knew.

Look at those biceps man!


XD

From third grade to Sixth, those years were terrible. So many people wailed on me for being Asian, a bunch made fun of me having an abnormal large forehead, and I clammed up so I never was really funny or had many friends. Junior high improve since I am at a strict public school but still wailed on but of the things.


Yeah thats sad. When I was on the fifth grade those eight graders bullied me several times for being small.
Unfortunately those who are ugly, small, weak, smart etc... have 90% chance of getting bullied.
nichodemus
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Well, on the plus side, if anyone bullies me for being lardy, I don't mind. Having the extra fat helps you sometimes. Bulks you up. And nice cushion if you fall.

brenda_1997
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Well you should be sorry, unless you had a good reason to bully her.


I'm not sure if this is a good reason but.. She pisses us off, she snitches on everyone,everyone hates her,teachers pet,so whiny, she nags,brags people alot.. She spilled coke in my sister's shoe..
Cenere
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No one has ever bulling me,you just need to defend yourself,most important is to have many frends who will be with you for anything that might happen.

Lessee, defend myself from getting punched... Hmm...
Yes, bullied, no, not gonna talk about it.

But just because someone is a teahcer's pet and you do not like them, it is not a reason to bully. It is a reason to ignore and avoid.
random_player_of_ag
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I'm not sure if this is a good reason but.. She pisses us off, she snitches on everyone,everyone hates her,teachers pet,so whiny, she nags,brags people alot.. She spilled coke in my sister's shoe.


The only valid reason I see is the spilled coke.

If it was on purpose she deserved it.
nichodemus
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I'm not sure if this is a good reason but.. She pisses us off, she snitches on everyone,everyone hates her,teachers pet,so whiny, she nags,brags people alot.. She spilled coke in my sister's shoe..


Lucky I'm in a boy school.

Lessee, defend myself from getting punched... Hmm...
Yes, bullied, no, not gonna talk about it.


Best is to call the teacher...Oh well.
Cenere
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If it was on purpose she deserved it.

No one deserves to be bullied.
It is not like some kind of punishment or anything, it is terrorizing someone until they break...
Really. Yell at them, ignore them, but do not gang up and bully any one for whatever reason you might find...
brenda_1997
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The only valid reason I see is the spilled coke.
If it was on purpose she deserved it.


It looked like it was on purpose. But she say's it was an "Accident"...
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