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dnguyen
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Do You Always Hate That People Make Fun Of You For Fun???

Well, I do.

I hate it. People making fun of me cause I'm asain. So what. They're not cool. If you agree or not agree me, well reply here if you really feel my pain. "sigh"

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goumas13
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making fun for racist reasons is really bad, but if you make fun for some action an other has made is ok (of course without excagereting)

Xavier1
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making fun for racist reasons is really bad, but if you make fun for some action an other has made is ok (of course without excagereting)


I have to say I disagree with you there. It all depends on the context. For example, I'm greek austrian, well that's my heritage anyway and my best mate is irish. I always call him a drunken idiot and he calls me a [insert any word that will set off the filter here] wog etc etc. The point is. When you can get over it and laugh it off that's one less thing people with actual mean intentions have against you.
goumas13
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yes you can make fun of your friends for racist reasons, but when you make fun of someone who is not your friend, then is not a joke is an insult.

marcz95
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i have been bullied and called names just because i where glasses

tennisman24
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i have been bullied and called names just because i where glasses


I know a quick solution. Get contacts.
marcz95
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it costs money alot

Zega
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Well, why wouldn't I? People** make fun of me because I don't have any parents. I don't know why, but they just do. This new school is driving me crazy...... The answer you are looking for is "yes".

**People at school

VoltCruelerz
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True, but you could be like me and not wear anything... I'm not terribly near-sighted, but I'm getting there...

Oh and not really. I used to be mocked for my eccentricities, my last name, my faith, my hair (I have red hair that if ignored, decides it wants to be an afro...); in other words, I was mocked for everything about me. Eventually however, I just hardened up and no longer show my emotions...(If you think I do on forums, you are sadly mistaken as I feel no anger behind it unless you are mentioning one of a few subjects...)

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Well, why wouldn't I? People** make fun of me because I don't have any parents. I don't know why, but they just do. This new school is driving me crazy...... The answer you are looking for is "yes".


I believe that at the age that you are (12?) the children at your school can not understand the idea of not having any parents and then cannot react to it in a mature fashion (mainly because they are not mature yet...). The idea that people would do this is really mean, but they obviously do not realise the ramifications behind the fact.

I myself have been a victim of teasing since I was around 7 (although I do remember not being in the cool group in kindy). I think I just act differently to how people expect me to act and so they then use me as an object to get other people to laugh.

I think that the reason that I am so good of an object is that I don't usually retaliate physically. For example, if someone were to pay out one of the 'tough' kids (the ones with little brain power yer muscles) in my class, they would be likely to get punched. However, if they pay out the 'geeky' kid with the big nose, they can be sure that they will go home without bruises.

My reason for not retaliating physically? I loathe physical violence as I believe it does not solve anything.

So, on the original question...

I do not hate the people that make fun of me because I know that they are also human beings and it is usually wrong to hate people. Also, I know that they don't really mean it in the end, sometimes they do mean it...and then that can hurt, but most of the time it is just joking around.

Also, I can usually think up something witty enough to get them back...or just say something that will utterly confuse them.
Zega
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(12?)

Corrected: (13?)

(the ones with little brain power yer muscles)

Ohhh, we have plenty. Am I one of them?... idk :s I'm weak, and stupid. So that would make me half tough half smart. :s
kingryan
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Corrected: (13?)


Well you were twelve once.

Ohhh, we have plenty. Am I one of them?... idk :s I'm weak, and stupid. So that would make me half tough half smart. :s


Yes. There is one in every family (its a phrase I don't mean each actual family...i.e not genealogically). And I wouldn't know because I have never met you.
Zega
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Well you were twelve once.

True, true....

And I wouldn't know because I have never met you.

I met you once.. In a strip club.
kingryan
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I met you once.. In a strip club.


Err....Zega....I don't think that was me....
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I hate that.
People tease each other just to feel better about themselves. The best solution? Ignore it.

My school mates always pick on me, they always find something they can use against me. But you don't see me cry about it do you? (Don't answer that)

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Dude, in my school, people think all asians are smart, and don't really insult them. Anyways, insults are all for fun, you shouldn't take it seriously dude

well in my school asians are thought smart as well. but, that is one of the reasons i am made fun of.
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