Just go to a moderated chat room that CAN get under control. I've made one, and nothing was wrong with it, the only thing it needed was more people. I should change the name of it too.
The thing is, the people who managed it meant that there would be less time to manage the REAL site, and both weren't holding up very well, so they axed the chat program. If you want an unofficial chat program, just find me.
