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Okay, my brother and his girl are in a major fight and both think that they are right. It all happened a couple of days ago.
My bro invited over a friend who is a girl and made cookies with her. His girlfriend feels a little threatened bcuz she doesn't really know the friend. My bro thinks that it isnt wrong to hang out with friends bcuz it doesn't really mean that he is going out with her. currently they are arguing over stupid shit.
who do you think is right?? please post and tell why. your opinion matters.
I tottally agree with Cenere... Of course he didn't intend to do something wrong, but she just can't know about that...she just can guess what happened, and if she didn't knew the girl, it's even worse... She's maybe a bit over-protective, but maybe she has reasons to act so...
I wouldn't be able to have a functioning relationship with a woman if she was so insecure I couldn't interact with other women as friends.
I don't think there's a case of who is correct - for me it comes down to these: If he wants to be whipped for the rest of his life, he should relent & become a slave to the will of another. If he's not willing to do whatever his partner has to say, she either has to change/grow up (it's probably a character flaw, so that's not going to happen) or he should ditch her.
Most girls not all expect to be "notified" of such things. You're brother should have at least told his girlfriend about hanging out with another friend who is a girl. His girlfriend overreacted for two possible reasons insecurity or the feeling of having something hidden from her. Some girls automatically think that if it's no big deal then why not say something. On the other hand boys assume that it's no big deal so there's no need to say anything. Most but not all girls tend to over analyze situations. In this case she thinks that if it wasn't a big deal then why hide it. However if she found out from your brother and not another person than it comes down to two things. she doesn't trust your brother or she doesn't trust his friend. Your brother shouldn't get mad though after all he was just baking cookies with a friend who just happened to be a girl. Every one has insecurities and need to be assured once in a while so maybe by not telling his girlfriend he gave way for suspicion. Your brother needs to understand that it's normal for his girlfriend to feel that way and reassure her that he's "with" her and not his friend. His girlfriend should also understand that when he says he was just baking cookies with a friend then that's all it was. If they fight about these kinds of things on a regular basis then they might want to reconsider their relationship.
