You can't, intelligence is a natural repellent of friendship, so, if you're smart, you'll die alone and end up creating an account at certain sites and find your own corner in a middle of threads (forum) and virtual friends.
this is epic!
You can be whatever you want, remember old saying "If there is a will, there is a way"
talk about super smart guys
wikipedia.org search for young prodigy, some of them can speak 200 languages and have IQ 300 (I think the IQ machine can't read his head lol)
Well, life goes on, at some point I'm thinking "
eople doesn't know if they are stupid", it includes me, you and everyone. for example: I have a real life experience, I was ordering a fried rice in a small resto, then the chef angry to me because I misspelled the word "zaofan" mean fried rice, and "zaofen" means fried noodle. Actually I don't misspelled it, she just hear not clear what I said.
Well, at first I was angry in my heart. But If I continue to fight her and bla bla bla I will not smarter than her, it will be useless. Now, that chef is 'smart' at cooking, but not smart enough in making relation with customer.
My point is you can be smart at any field, everyday, rather than make people angry and make them hate you in their heart by saying "stupid" or something like that.
another real-life experience, some of my friend who is a little bit smarter than me, like to say "stupid" to me, I don't like it, but it could be my fault that i never tell him directly, but I tell him undirectly. Did he realize by saying stupid to others really reduce his chance to get more friends? Did he smart enough not hurt other people feeling? At the end of semester I have so many friends from Vietnam, Thailand, Laos, Switzerland, Englishman, and Chinese (I study Chinese in GuangXiHuaQiaoXueXiao) he ask me "why you have so many friend?
He ask me that question because he thinks my Chinese language is not good enough to make friend, so he thinks I'm weird or somethin? No, in making friend not only langueage you need, I teach Chinese people English and hang out with them, brain is not everything, I sometime treat them tea vice versa, that's life, you don't want to spend your whole life with book right? You can't make friend just by reading book and staying in your dorm 24 hours/day.
About happiness.
Well this stuff is depend on the person, if you are sanguine, choleric, phlegmatic, or melancholic.
Money VS Happiness, you can be
1. rich and happy.
2. rich and not happy.
3. poor and happy.
4. poor and not happy.
Money is not always make you happy, but it's better if you have money and hang out with your friend, you can share your feeling, problems, and vice versa. So, you can be anybody, but always try to be happy, search things that makes you happy and fight for it, it's worth trying.