I always feel so alone.... Nobody is ever home. My foster parent's always out of town, or when he's here he's always tired or busy with something. I have nobody to be with. Nothing. I want to be with someone. Maybe a friend would be nice. I don't want a pet though. You probably don't understand.
im sorry Zega but everyone has given you so manythings that you could do to make friends but you say no to every one of them for some reason.... if you really dont what to be alone you have to try something you dont like to do to make friends .... I did and now I have a boyfriend *crazy how that worked out*
Try the first day at school at lunch. ask to sit with a group of people and introduce yourself. then you can start talking with these people and before you know it, you will have new friends.
Ok guys Obviously this kid wants some ATTENTION...Either that or he must be either Really Annoying or doesnt SHOWER...idk never met the kid...but he needs a friend ASAP...
Zega, yo usaid there were old people? Really, they are some of the nicest people you will ever talk to. Just saying hi to them will make them like you, and eventually they will become very close with you, almost like grnadparents
Find somebody in your area with similar interests, don't be socially inept, it won't help, and just be yourself. No use in having friends you can't yourself around. Somebody is bound to like you, just spark up a conversation.
Whats wrong with wierd, all of my friends are wierd. All you have to do is act like you don't really care. Heck, I had a 70's hair doo going, all bushy and going down to my shoulders. (tip: if you have long hair WASH IT every mourning) Also, making funny comments when the teacher ask you something helps. (Ex: I was asked what the past tense of break is - broke of course - but I just had to say break-ed) DON'T BE AFRAID TO BE FUNNY.
Here are a few things you can try: Go to a local church's youth group. Go to a local church. See what local sports are around you that you can join. See if there is anything you can volunteer for locally. Go to gatherings in your town. Get an online buddy. (lol) Introduce yourself to neighbors. Go to a local community pool. Go to a local park. See if there is a club you can join around you.
You don't necessarily have to be religious to go to youth group. It is a fun place where they teach you about religion but you also take time to meet new people and make new friends.
O, also Zega. I saw your "religon...not the path I want to go down" (sorry if i was a bit off) post.
You don't even have to be religous to go to a youth group. In fact, they like it better when there not religous. And IF you go, and have fun, then go back. And go back again. And if you don't simplie don't go any more.
Also, if your foster parents are busy, simplie call the church, and see if any one lives near you that could give you a ride. Church people are amazingly nice...most for the wrong reason, but we won't get into that.
Here are a few things you can try: Go to a local church's youth group. Go to a local church.
Go to a local church, and play AG!
I 'feel' AG forum is my new church, really.
Talking about church, I don't want to change this into religion thread, but I get enough with church, I like God, but I don't like the people inside the church, just like Gandhi said.
I was going to the church from baby, 2 years old. Now I have new 'vision' about what church is.
Talking about loneliness, you have to 'reduce' or even better 'forget' the loneliness, try these:
1. Get out from you 'regular life cycle', do new things, try new activities, challenge your wisdom and feel the difference.
2. Dare to 'jump' from your ZOC, Zone of Comfort. Everyone has one, try it, you might like it.
3. Some people have many friends but still lonely, some people have only 3 friend but don't feel lonely. They just not too 'focus' about loneliness or not, they do many interesting things everyday!
