Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
into me lets just say and i really don't know how to tell her that it really would not work out cause i have no feelings for her. Any suggestions ?
just tell her the truth, she may be hurt for a day or two, but she will get over it, but tell her that you care about her but only in a friend way, and tell her that you dont feel the same way. just say the truth and in the end all well be okay.... good luck
just tell her the truth, she may be hurt for a day or two, but she will get over it, but tell her that you care about her but only in a friend way, and tell her that you dont feel the same way. just say the truth and in the end all well be okay.... good luck
That is such a touchy situation, but you can't pretend to a)be into her as well or b) ignore the issue. Shyla definitely said it best, just remember to tell this to her nicely and genuinely as your friendship is still valuable to both of you.
i find the best thing you can say is what YOU decide to say, not what anybody else has said because its not from you. its not from your heart. its goes the same for when you want a girl to like you. every word you say can tell alot about you. and so you really do have to be yourself because say you do start a relationship but your not being yourself. you cant stay like that for ever, they will find out who you really are sooner or later. its a matter of if they will still like the real you or not. and thats why its just better to be yourself from the start. dont waste you time and money.
your very right headhunter, it is best to be yourself, but it still is not a bad idea to talk to people about what to say, or how to say it. and thats were Trayz, Hood,Bjiscuit,and I come in .... XD lol
your very right headhunter, it is best to be yourself, but it still is not a bad idea to talk to people about what to say, or how to say it. and thats were Trayz, Hood,Bjiscuit,and I come in .... XD lol
yeah so if you need some pro advice we can help so let us help man.
Uhmm well thanks but she has been a friend of mine for a long time and i dont want to put it that way ... believe me i thought about it...
hey ok this is good...ok now dont let her down like that just go up to her and say(her name) i need to talk about us? then say ok you and i have been friends for such and such but i dont think that you and i could work i like you but just not like that ok im sorry but i just want to continue being friends with you.
hey ok this is good...ok now dont let her down like that just go up to her and say(her name) i need to talk about us? then say ok you and i have been friends for such and such but i dont think that you and i could work i like you but just not like that ok im sorry but i just want to continue being friends... FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!
just tell her the truth, she may be hurt for a day or two, but she will get over it, but tell her that you care about her but only in a friend way, and tell her that you dont feel the same way. just say the truth and in the end all well be okay.... good luck
Thank you very much (and thank you for the other responses)
