me and my ex just broke up like a week ago and lets just say im about to go over to hang out with her and one of my best friends candace, with like my brother chris.
lets just say she wants his dick pretty bad. he told me he wouldnt be hitting on her and stuff if we went but... wouldnt be the first hes tried and hit on my gf/ex and i dont know wether i should just let him go by himself or should i go too.
im debating cause i know chris woiuld too cause i know him to good.
i still have very strong feelings for this girl and i was just wondering what i should do? should i stay at my house or go with chris?
I meant as in the relationships tend to be more of a game then what 'love' truly is. And most of the time (not always) the relationships are just this big game with redundant games back and forth. Then there are those who truly do love one another, and end up married. The others, they forget about one another, move on, and some may look back a few times, who knows.
never ask about relationship advice on a site filled with immature kids.
It all depends on what you gained in life's experience I guess... To say the least, I gained a lot, but it didn't kill me! Remember that... ALWAYS!
My vision on this is... listen to advice (advice not listened to is bad judgement on your part) and make up your own mind on what you want to do, this makes your character and builds your personality throughout the years of your life... If you feel bad when you see either him or her, or even the two of them together, I agree (again based on my own experience) that you should avoid being around them. This way you shield yourself a little from getting hurt, but when you're able to put it aside and look them in the eye while telling them how you feel about it, you are more of person then them... What I mean is, a REAL friend would never do this to you, this way he's only thinking about himself, making him an arrogant person to be around with and your ladyfriend is simply the same and not worthy f your attention...
Basically what I'm trying to say is, try to find the part of you that thinks "I'm better than them when I look at them and I'm moving on with my life"...
The old saying "there's lots of fish in the sea" really DOES work, you only need to set your mind straight, cope with this problem and move on before you 'see' and appreciate this saying...
Good luck and remember... you're the better person if you get over this and move on! She simply wasn't made for you and doesn't deserve any more attention...
im not a pro,but ill find this gap,try to breach this gap in between and then brainstorm super glue or something and get her happy and stuck to you,but you got to take the initiative yourself,cos you know the full situation and all,so heres "advice"
