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Danstanta
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i was wondering, because i really want my school to start and it starts August 16 and i want to know what i can do to make my weeks go by faster so i can go to school already and see my lover and friends

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Danstanta
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as opposed to calling them, emailing, texting, or visiting definitely raises questions as to the actual nature of the relationship.


i don't know the shit your talking about but i do text, call her, is it too much to say i want to fucking see her face after months? i stay corrected as another person.
MRWalker82
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And why can't you meet up somewhere? Is there no public place like a mall, theater, or restaurant that you two could arrange to meet at?

Danstanta
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Yes but hell, no way i can see her until August 16 because of how busy she is baby sitting and going everywhere T-T

MRWalker82
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Yes but hell, no way i can see her until August 16 because of how busy she is baby sitting and going everywhere T-T


That's too bad. Sounds like you just aren't a priority. I would suggest getting a new girlfriend then.
howlett
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Agreed with Walker, does she even call you?Have you seen or for the duration of the holidays?

MRWalker82
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Yeah I'm pretty sure that somewhere in her schedule there could be time to meet with you if she made it a priority. Even for just a few minutes. But that's what you do when you are lovers. You make the time because it's important to you. Typically in a relationship if the other person isn't making you a priority it's a good sign that it's time to move on.

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Well you could play games, hang out with friends, post things on forums, go shopping (hehe)

read a book? watch some movies..

so what will you do?

Yeah I'm pretty sure that somewhere in her schedule there could be time to meet with you if she made it a priority. Even for just a few minutes. But that's what you do when you are lovers. You make the time because it's important to you. Typically in a relationship if the other person isn't making you a priority it's a good sign that it's time to move on.


i agree with this, even when you have a couple of minutes, when you really love each other, that wouldn't be a problem and you would make fun of it! or when you only have time to walk the dog together or so.. it's a bit weird that she can't even find one hour in all those weeks to see you..
Danstanta
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ounds like you just aren't a priority


really are you kidding me, is it so bad that i still text her and talk to her, just because of summer which makes people more busy going out. I'm suppose to leave her because i haven't talked to her in what a week? and why the fuck are you all starting a conversation about this, i'm locking this. it's bullshit.
MRWalker82
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why the **** are you all starting a conversation about this


First, the obscenities are unnecessary. Secondly we are discussing it because you felt it necessary to invite the discussion on your personal life by creating a thread all about why you want your week to go by more swiftly. In fact you even participated in the conversation until people started voicing opinions which you did not agree with or want to hear. Here's a tip. If you don't want people to talk about your personal life don't make a thread about it. Pretty simple.
MRWalker82
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I'm suppose to leave her because i haven't talked to her in what a week?


And no, I'm not proposing that you leave her. I am saying that based on her actions and the situations which you have described it seems as though she is not creating time for you and making you as much of a priority as someone would if their emotional attachment was as strong as you claim it to be. I am not saying you should specifically 'do' anything. However I suggest you give it some serious and impartial thought. I am a bit older than the average member here and I have a great deal of experience with relationships, both through my career as a counselor and in my personal life.
vontje
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Here's a tip. If you don't want people to talk about your personal life don't make a thread about it. Pretty simple


I agree with this, i think you shouldn't open a topic that's so important about your personal life.. it's not very smart and you get things like this. Ofcourse we do not know you and your love, but we base our conclusions on what you tell us and we talk about it cause you obviously wanted to because you made a topic about it... you could say you have a surprise for her, if she suddenly does have time for you when you say that... then i think there's something wrong..
MageGrayWolf
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i was wondering, because i really want my school to start and it starts August 16 and i want to know what i can do to make my weeks go by faster so i can go to school already and see my lover and friends


Travel at near the speed of light. It should take maybe a few seconds and it will be August.
howlett
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Mage, that would help if it could work, I wish it would turn to soccer season already!

MageGrayWolf
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Mage, that would help if it could work, I wish it would turn to soccer season already!


Sure it would work, we just don't have the technology to pull it off yet.
howlett
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Yea, and by the time thats created I'll be dead for a few thousand years, lol.

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