Hello, i recently got out of a relationship. we were in love but it ended so randomly. and my ex gf is with other guys and it kills me. i cant get with other girls because im not like that. how can i get over this?
I'm asking because--as an adult (I'm 26)--I would say 'just get over it' if you're still young. Until you're older, relationships are always on the fray and they will always be rubbish. I had friends marry young and it was a mistake. They weren't in love, they didn't know what that even meant. And, yeah, I thought I was in love when I was 21 with my then-boyfriend. I wasn't. I only thought I was.
You need to sit back and think of the reasons you were with her: sex?; convenience?; had been for too long?; convinced yourself you loved her because you wanted to be in love and not because it was actually true?
Well, you'll run into the fray, looking for a soul mate, but my advice to finding a great person is don't look for them, make them look for you. Breakups are bad, but let's face it, you will be dumped. Just keep in mind that there will be another person out there.
Don't talk to her, it will only make you 2 hate each other, give it some time so that you both can get over it. If you still talk to her it eventually can be that you both are taking revenge on each other, and that's not what you're supposed to do!
But did you dumped her or what? if she dumped you, ofcourse it's hard, but also when you dumped her it can be weird. It just doesn't feel right because it's "normal" for you to see that she only goes out with you, but in the end this all will stop, so i say, just look around!
That sucks man, I'm sorry but my only advice is to get over it, chances are it wouldn't of lasted out of high school anyway. Once again, that sucks, I'm sorry, breakups are hard, but you're gonna have to move on.
Trolol Tiem (Did it on purpose) There are these things called guns, See when your "Love" breaks your heart you get one of these and kill them and their whole family. Then you run away and hide in a barn. Once there you tie a rope to the rafters, and a noose on the other end, and put that on your neck and jump.
Now for reality: Kid, your 16...you don't know what real love is. Now don't freak out on me saying something like: "Yeah well your only 18." Trust me I know I'm not old enough to know what true love is..OK I lied, I actually do. Don't waste your time with this person, and move on.
thats well harsh not to tell u y she ended the relationship! the best thing u could do is probably give her some space. Space can make people think about things and sometimes people being together all the time can make people argue and fight. Spending time away from each other can give them time to think and when they c each other again they can get on better and be happier together. All relationships have there bad points so if u really need to move on from her remember... your relationship with her was never as perfect as you thought.
Im 16. And i got dumped. we are trying to work it out now
Then again, let it go for a moment, don't talk to her, don't look on her hyves etc, because when you do you the wound can't heal, it's just like when you keep scratching the spot where a mosquitoe bit you.. when you do that it can't heal:P
I think it isn't true that you can't know real love. It depends on how the person itself is. You can have 30 year old persons, acting like 12, but you can also have 15 year old persons who know more than a 30 year old guy..
Anyway, you could ask her why she dumped you, you have the right to know it! if she tells it, you can have peace with it more easily
[quote]Then again, let it go for a moment, don't talk to her, don't look on her hyves etc, because when you do you the wound can't heal, it's just like when you keep scratching the spot where a mosquitoe bit you.. when you do that it can't heal:P I think it isn't true that you can't know real love. It depends on how the person itself is. You can have 30 year old persons, acting like 12, but you can also have 15 year old persons who know more than a 30 year old guy.. Anyway, you could ask her why she dumped you, you have the right to know it! if she tells it, you can have peace with it more easily[quote]
