My friend is having a party for the Red Carpet, or something like that. Almost all of my friends are girls (I'm a dude) and they are all going to be there. But, all the girls are coming two hours earlier to hang out, and after the party the girls are having sleepover. Should I feel left out? And the guys are coming at 4:00 and leaving at 6:00, so should I even come? It's only 2 hours of party.
Second of all, I overheard my friends (girls) talking to another girl I like. They were saying: "Tall guys and short girls together are cute, but tall girls and short guys.... WIERD!" That kinda disturbed me. I'm very short, and the girl I like is kinda tall! Should I be concerned of what my friends think if I want to hook up with her? Is this Heightism? Or Sexism? --- Help me...
If your the only person ,regardless of gender, not invited to the party then yes. Since though its only girls Id say no as they may merely want to have a girls night out. As to the height thing that is totally ridiculous. How can height have an effect on whether two people could be happy together?
It's still 2 hours of being together with your friends, right? How bad can it be?.. And for the difference of height.. to be honest it isn't the first time I hear that a certain woman prefers a man that is at least as high as her, but this is an individual choice, and the girl you like didn't say it herself, the others said that right? Anyway you have to try, if you really like her. Maybe she's perfectly ok with it. You'll never know if you don't try.
