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phsycomonkey
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Gossip is found all over the world and usually is stereotypical, I have asked many if it's bad and I usually get 50-50. What do you think?

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idontsuckthatmuch
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According to RhymeZone, one of the definitions of gossip is:

a report (often malicious) about the behavior of other people

That probably means there isn't too much good gossip out there. So I think it isn't right to gossip, but that's not going to stop many people, is it?

SupaLegit
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I don't think it is wrong so to say. However, you shouldn't make horrible rumors about someone. That just isn't right imo

FallenSky
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I, for one, think gossiping is purely puerile and immature. I wonder how you can have respect for yourself while trashing others behind their back, for me it's a total lack of respect.
Though I don't want to be sexist, I think it's mainly a girl thing. Everywhere I've worked, all the guys would get so mad at the girls for *****ing everyone behind their backs. I'm currently thinking about quitting my actual job just because of the girls, isn't it pathetic?

I mean, there's so much more to do in life and so much more to strive for than stupid rumor spreading about people; gossiping is a complete waste of time, but then again, that's only my opinion, and after all, I'm but a crazy, misanthrope hermit, so don't mind me.

thebluerabbit
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i personally think its wrong. still, something good might happen. if someone who has good intentions will listen he might be able to help they person they were gosspping about

knight_34
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I think gossip is inherently unpalatable, even if I do find myself a practitioner. Most gossip is malicious. That basically says it's bad. I've also seen too many times where gossip and the secrecy of matters is more damaging than the actual rumors being bandied around.

That's intolerable.

Efan
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I hate gossip. I really do. Especially these days with teenagers. It sounds like they've been educated to be uneducated.

loloynage2
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I hate gossip. I really do. Especially these days with teenagers. It sounds like they've been educated to be uneducated.


That is the exact same thing i thought.
GhostOfMatrix
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educated to be uneducated.

I lol'd at that part.
I think its something done by rich folks and teenagers.

You're wrong.
Gossip can be done by anyone who just wants to talk bad about an individual or a class of people.

I don't like gossip; at my lunch room in school I across to some teenagers and all they do is gossip about people they see in the lunch room. I mean if you don't like the person and you're willing to share with others then why not tell the person that you hate them? I see no point in that.
brp47
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gossip in itself is not rong but the way that some people use it is rong

farrowking37
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i find gossip is a wrong thing to do, half the time the information you get told and pass on is not close to accurate, and eventually can lead to utter catastrophic failure of the person who the gossip is about's self esteem.

Kasic
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The only difference between gossip and normal talking is the subject matter. So no. How is it "Wrong" to talk about something someone did.

brp47
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gossips fine but its what you gossip about that can be the problem

darkrai097
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I think it is neutral. It can be harmful to people, but usually it doesn`t do anything.

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