that is probably the best rpg i have ever played. but how do you do the first mission in the dark brotherhood? i can't find Rufio in the Inn of Ill Omen. apparently there is a trap door. where?
Should be somewhere on the first floor. Talk to the owner of the inn and ask about Rufio - he'll mention that he has a room downstairs and is sleeping. After having checked the area, open the map and take a look. All doors should be marked there. If it's still not enough, try getting a torch or a spell that'll let you see better in the dark.
Are you playing a PC or console version of the game?
he said that RTufio is a guy who always has a room there as if he's hiding. and im playing the xbox version. it just says that i should look for the private quarters which i can't fin
The map marker should point you to it. Just climb down into the private quarters, AKA cellars or something, and it should be the last door to your left.
Also, I must say, the Dark Brotherhood quest line is way more epic than the main story.