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Posted Apr 10, '11 at 6:02pm

TackyCrazyTNT

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She is helping him rediscover love. By going out to lunch with her.


He doesn't like her. She doesn't like him. I don't think there are any sparks flying there.
 

Posted Apr 10, '11 at 6:28pm

MoonFairy

MoonFairy

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Ohhhkay, you can trust her while she says she doesn't like him.
But I'm pretty positive she does.

 

Posted Apr 10, '11 at 6:29pm

TackyCrazyTNT

TackyCrazyTNT

1,955 posts

Ohhhkay, you can trust her while she says she doesn't like him.
But I'm pretty positive she does.


She's a horrible liar. And something tells me it makes her feel self important to help someone with such an emotional...problem....
 

Posted Apr 10, '11 at 7:54pm

Ernie15

Ernie15

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I don't think there are any sparks flying there.


Probably not, but just to make sure, I suggest you talk to the guy before you jump to conclusions.

And something tells me it makes her feel self important to help someone with such an emotional...problem....


It may make her feel important, but it makes her look like she doesn't even know what love is. Love can't be forced, especially when neither of the two people involved in it aren't feeling it at all.
 

Posted Apr 10, '11 at 10:03pm

Ghgt99

Ghgt99

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My friend likes this girl who gets in trouble for talking in class. But she is dating another guy and they are sure to break up soon. But by the time the girl is free, she will be back up and dating by the next day! He only has one day!


Tell him to get to be friends with this girl. Don't flirt, just be friends. Then when they break up, make your move. That is how I got my current GF.
 

Posted Apr 10, '11 at 10:33pm

Armpit

Armpit

803 posts

She's a horrible liar.


She may be a better liar than you think. Although she may tell you she's doing this for the boy, and she may even believe this herself, she is most likely doing it for her benefit more than his. She'd probably be able to tell if he didn't find her interesting, so unless she got something out of this, why else would she bother trying with this bloke?

But she is dating another guy and they are sure to break up soon. But by the time the girl is free, she will be back up and dating by the next day! He only has one day!


He doesn't have one day. He has as many days as it takes for the girl to break up with her boyfriend. He can use that time to build a relationship with the girl. Not necessarily a romantic one just yet, but a friendly one that lets her know he exists.

If you're absolutely sure that the girl and the boy are going to break up, your friend can even hint to the girl that he wants her as more than a friend. He shouldn't rush into it, but he should slyly hint at it just to see how she responds and if she even wants him as well.
 

Posted Apr 10, '11 at 11:03pm

Armpit

Armpit

803 posts

He will only know if he finds out. That's obvious. Which means your friend will have to talk to this girl behind the other bloke's back in order to keep it a secret from him. He may also want to avoid being seen by anybody, just in case someone has the nerve to snitch on him.

 

Posted Apr 10, '11 at 11:10pm

Armpit

Armpit

803 posts

Does that work out in any way?


It could definitely work to his advantage. He could subtly ask the girl if she plays any instruments. No matter what her answer may be, she will probably ask him back, and that's when he can tell her that he is a decent musician. If he's lucky, she'll ask him to play a song or two for her. Then it's all downhill from there.
 

Posted Apr 11, '11 at 7:05am

exicoasterpath

exicoasterpath

273 posts

My friend likes a girl that I hate. One time I had a dream about pushing her off a cliff. What do I do? He is one of my best friends, and she just got off a relationship.

 

Posted Apr 11, '11 at 9:49am

Ghgt99

Ghgt99

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My friend likes a girl that I hate. One time I had a dream about pushing her off a cliff. What do I do? He is one of my best friends, and she just got off a relationship.


Give the guy some room, just bear with her. Then get some psychiatric help.
 
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