ok. i just want to hear your guys' comments on this little notice ive taken.
i have noticed that girls and guys argue VERY differently. and i do mean in a semi-specific circumstance. like if your arguing with your girlfriend or boyfriend about something they did, or your harping on a friend for borrowing something without asking, basically arguing over something someone has done.
guys will merely try and defend themselves. for example:
John:dude why did you take my skateboard?! i didnt say you could and i kinda needed it. Josh:Oh, sorry man, i thought it was ok if i did cause we're so close and stuff.
you see what i mean?
girls on the other hand turn it around and try and blame it on you and then suddenly your arguing about what you did. the example is a really drastic version and isnt always like this but its the general idea:
Stacy:why did you borrow that T-shirt without asking?! i had a date and i needed it!
Jessica:stop your yelling your going to wake my parents up. you need to learn to not overreact and calm down.
Girls tend to be harsher than boys, unlike boys they are social bullies and will definately take revenge (not always). Girls know how to talk and will use that against you (or whomever).
Note: I'm taking this from facts and experience, so please don't attack me.
Something i've noticed, Girls tend to take insults/insinuations far more seriously than most guys. For example, while working on building a deck, I said to one other guy, "Man, you really suck at mixing concrete" and he just laughed. Any girl I know would have responded like, "Well if i'm so bad at it why don't you do it?" and not have taken it as a joke initially.
It's sort of like love. Some people may like you, others may not.
Ah, common Love is something you can work to achieve. Display the right personalty, work on you're looks and if you play you're cards right you can always win. At least that's how you win love from the other side, the other side needs to work to get yours. Its all chemicals!
hmmm... well women do take the argument too far sometimes but I know that I easily confuse myself when arguing sometimes. One time, i was arguing with this guy in my class and my friend came by.I meant to say hi and instead put the cuss on him!
But in the end, it seems that neither gender knows how to properly argue unless they took special raining at picking out flaws.
when I'm arguing with one of my friends she always has to be right. even if it's indirect. and when i tell her to look up something and i'm right, she's always like, "I hate you!" but in a sarcastic friend-like way.
In my English class, there was a guy v. girl division this time. The girls were all about average in intelligence (from what I have seen), while the guys were either smart (including me), or dumb.
After the first round, there was a gap, the girls were winning. The smart guys and I closed the gap a little, only for it to widen even further.
My teacher noticed that the guys were ready to kill each other, the girls were more comforting.
