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Hmm. Well you might be missing something here. Some people need to improve their image for their health. Sure fattys are nice to hug but their health is at risk. They need to improve themselves so they can have a happier life.

Healthy bodies give us better looks. Better looks give us better woman. Better woman give us more joy. More joy give us more self-esteem. Not to mention the elongated life if the exercise is healthy.

Sure fattys are nice to hug but their health is at risk. They need to improve themselves so they can have a happier life.

Nater has a point. Like if you go exercise for like at least 30 minutes you'll be healthy and fit so you can have a high self-esteem.

I'm not saying "Go ahead, eat McDonalds everyday four times a day."

Because people who are physically attractive are usually PRICKS!

It's all about survival of the fittest. It's human, and most animals', nature to look for a partner who is healthy and fit. It's only natural that people look for a partner with good genes, even if they don't realize that's what they're doing, to ensure that the species is at its best.

Sure, with the way humanity has prospered this is no longer really necessary, but the instincts are still there. Humans are much more affected by the instincts from before we were civilized than you'd think.

Being physically fit can help with things in life. I understand there are people out there who obsess about working out for several hours a day, and I don't particularly agree with that, but it isn't bad to work out. It gives you something to do, improve your health, and even help you with things in life. Such as certain jobs that require you to be fit. If you're in the Marines and you're just a big sack of fat, you're not going to last long in there. If you're a firefighter or even a police officer, have fun trying to do those things without being physically fit. If someone is robbing someone and you can't even run a block without getting winded, that isn't good. It may also help when defending yourself. If you're stronger and more physically fit, you'll most likely be able to defend yourself better than if you're a three hundred pound sack of fat. Most fat people I've seen can't even walk down a hall way in school without getting winded, that's pretty sad. But why would you let yourself go like that? If you do, then you choose to be fat. I know there are diseases out there and whatnot that you can't do anything about your weight, but if you can do stuff about it, then you shouldn't choose to be that way. Being very fat will be a difficult lifestyle to live in. I bet getting winded by walking about twenty feet doesn't sound well, so people should get fit. If someone's fat and they choose to be that way, then later they get insulted and stuff, it's their own fault for choosing that route. Everyone (except for people with those diseases) are capable of being fit. Personally, I'd rather be a fit individual rather than being some sack of fat that can't even do the easiest of things such as running around, playing sports, doing pullups, doing pushups, etc.. I'd hate to be very fat because it wouldn't be a good lifestyle. You'd have health problems in life, get called names, not be able to do the easiest of things, you wouldn't be able to enjoy life. Sure, it's good to eat all that great food and stuff, but you have to exercise otherwise you'll end up getting fatter and fatter. **** happens, man. If you were to be kidnapped by some people while being some sack of fat that can't do anything to defend yourself. What are you gonna do? Just sit there and wait to be killed?

Alright, now, if people don't like how they look. Such as being a very fat individual, then they shouldn't hate themselves for it. They should just choose a better lifestyle, then they'll be happier. I can understand why fat people hate how they look because I can imagine that it must be difficult for them to do things in everyday life, and it must be difficult for them to find clothing that fits them well without them being uncomfortable. But really, if you don't like how you look, then choose a better lifestyle.

Would you rather look like this:


Or like this:


I can imagine living being that fat would be very difficult. Personally, I'd hate to be that fat. I'd rather be fit than fat anyday, and the reasons have already been stated. I can't really see how you can find love by being like that. I'd like to be with someone that has a great personality and is physically fit. I can't see myself with someone that is obese because it just doesn't feel right. What am I going to be doing with my partner? Enjoy eating with them? We won't be able to do much because of how fat they are, they won't be able to do the things I enjoy doing.

As for the women thing, where they obsess on how they look and such, it's understandable. They want to look pretty, but really, they shouldn't obsess that much. Putting so much makeup on just makes you look hideous. I wouldn't want to be with a girl that wears a lot of makeup, because when she took it off, she'd look very ugly. I'd rather be with someone that has natural beauty.

because it just doesn't feel right.

What am I going to be doing with my partner?