This might sound stupid, but the situation is that I fell in love with a girl that is a year older than me, and is one of my best friends. I just need some help on how I should approach her, or if I should at all. I am going to a party with her tomorrow, and hang out with her and go places a lot. She might want to just be friends, and she is a realy good friend, so I don't want to ruin that. We like a lot of the same things, and, again, we hang out a lot. Sometimes she seams like one of the guys, she plays tackle football, likes to fight, and is fun to be around. We have been friends for about 8 months, and I found my love for her gradualy, so it can't be lust. I need any advice anyone can give me so please help! If you have questions, just ask, and please, no spam!
That's easier said than done. I can't just reach over and grab her hand, and she isn't the dacing or dinner type. The party her and I planned is a very active and semi-violent(tackle football, king of the hill, contact CTF), so there won't be those kind of "activities". I also am sticking to abstinince until marraige, so keep that in mind.
Well don't just come right out and say you like her. Give her something. or if she's being made fun of or drops her stuff pick it up for her. Get to be a real friend first then ask her out.
Well, that's all I got. I found that when I was in highschool, my girlfriend did most of the work on that front. Now we have been maried for 4 years. Maybe you should let her "make the first move".
I know how you feel. I'm absolutely in love with a girl in my school, but i'm one of the oldest in my age group, so i have almost no problems, except the fact that she might like my best friend. I'd just approach her the obvious way, as long as she gets the faintest outline that you like her, although i went too far
She is well liked and some what popular, and older than me, and I worry about sexual pressure-a big problem at my school-andI am the youngest in my age group, but I am the biggest and tallest and strongest. I always have peer pressure and I don't want that, and I am one of her best friends, so I am a "real friend" in my opinion. I value my friendship more that a relationship, any other suggestions? Many of those already said are good.
I dont know how this old thread got revived... but at this point I'm curious if anything came of this relationship! There was a lot of good advice given here )
