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Posted Jan 3, '13 at 5:42am

xNightwish

xNightwish

1,560 posts

We'll need a bit more info before giving a next step (How long have you known her? How close are you? Is she going out with someone else? etc).

I would say we know eachother for around 1 year, and we are pretty close.
She isn't going out with anyone else. We mostly have the same friends.
But my main problem, we both have jobs but we don't work the same days.
We could hang out during the some days but I wouldn't really know where to go. So, should I just take a evening free of work, or something else.

 

Posted Jan 4, '13 at 8:28pm

xxBoogeymaNxx

xxBoogeymaNxx

85 posts

We could hang out during the some days but I wouldn't really know where to go.

Well what do you guys have in common, interest-wise? I can't speak first-hand because I don't know either of you, but from personal experience, it's not always about where you hang out at. A lot of the time, simply hanging out together is good enough, especially if you are interested in each other (and I hope you guys are, seeing as how you made out :P). If you insist on going somewhere in specific to hang out at, try to find things that interest both of you. Are you both into video games? Interested in the same types of movies? Have a weird fetish about hanging out with people in Wal-Mart without buying anything?? (Ok that's just me xD) Though if I were hanging out with someone I was interested in, I wouldn't care where it was. I hope this helps at least a little bit :)

 

Posted Jan 5, '13 at 2:31am

pangtongshu

pangtongshu

8,704 posts

Have a weird fetish about hanging out with people in Wal-Mart without buying anything??

Take her to Walmart...*****es love Walmart

 

Posted Jan 5, '13 at 3:11am

xxBoogeymaNxx

xxBoogeymaNxx

85 posts

So do guys. -raises hand- Almost everyone likes Walmart.

 

Posted Jan 5, '13 at 3:25am

pangtongshu

pangtongshu

8,704 posts

So do guys. -raises hand- Almost everyone likes Walmart.

Well of course haha but I'd be surprised if you got the joke of what I said =p a few pages back I was talking about a girl that I hung out with one day...there was nothing to do since it was so late so the only thing to do was go hang out at Walmart. Safe to say...that had quite the reaction and impression on everyone XD

 

Posted Jan 5, '13 at 3:28am

xxBoogeymaNxx

xxBoogeymaNxx

85 posts

Ahhhh haha nah I didn't bother reading a few pages back xD And I have a similar story, whenever i'm hanging with friends and we run out of stuff to do, I suggest the same thing. Though like I said, it's like a fetish for me >.

 

Posted Jan 6, '13 at 10:15pm

daleks

daleks

3,315 posts

Um...daleks...?

Chill pang. Well...it has been pretty much 6 days. I have not heard anything back from the girl. I am not even sure if she saw my post. So... nothing interesting. Sorry. Bye.

 

Posted Jan 6, '13 at 11:11pm

pickpocket

pickpocket

3,520 posts

Bummer. I guess. I mean, the entire thing was kinda evil. So.... Non bummer?
Bye daleks. Do me a favor and check by my art forum at the end of this week, I might have something up for your good bye.

 

Posted Jan 8, '13 at 1:12am

JuicyFruits

JuicyFruits

171 posts

Ok so where to start?Um this school year my friend (guy) and I were really close friends.Nothing like dating or any of that.So my best friend and him didn't like each other AT ALL!So they both had almost all their classes together and she started hanging out with him and his friend.He started to like her and told me.About a month later she told me he liked him.She wasn't really good by expressing her feelings so she asked if I could for her so I did.Now they're dating and stuff.The problem is, neither of them will talk to me.They're both my best friends, but they spend like every second with each other.Its like they don't even see me exist.I mean I do let them hang out even if we had plans or stuff like that.I don't want to break them up, it's just that I want to hang out with them once in awhile because I haven't in a long time but they are like attached to each other.

 

Posted Jan 8, '13 at 2:47pm

EmperorPalpatine

EmperorPalpatine

5,011 posts

It seems you've become 3rd-wheel'd. You could be direct and tell them how you feel, but that's not always the best option, as they might take it the wrong way. Maybe get someone else and do a double date thing? Or go with a slightly bigger group so it's not as awkward.

 
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