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Posted Mar 4, '13 at 6:06pm

pickpocket

pickpocket

2,889 posts

You disappoint me daleks. I was hoping that you would be one of those emotionally unstable ones who needs my help.
*sees above posts*
I mean, not that it's a BAD thing. I er... uh... I'm just going to go now....

 

Posted Mar 5, '13 at 2:08am

pangtongshu

pangtongshu

4,430 posts

Asking girl to prom. She is a grade higher than me.

Wait a minute..does that mean you area only a junior??

 

Posted Mar 5, '13 at 3:12pm

daleks

daleks

2,516 posts

Wait a minute..does that mean you area only a junior??

No. I am a senior.

 

Posted Mar 5, '13 at 3:40pm

pickpocket

pickpocket

2,889 posts

But I say again, you hang out with us all day long and we are from the Internet. There is no way you landed a collage girl.

 

Posted Mar 6, '13 at 5:52pm

Devoidless

Devoidless

2,907 posts

Moderator

There is no way you landed a collage girl.

I don't think anyone can score a collage girl, really.

 

Posted Mar 6, '13 at 9:42pm

daleks

daleks

2,516 posts

I don't think anyone can score a collage girl, really.

Collage girls don't change emotion. I think you meant college pickpocket. Why is it so hard to think that I could have a shot with a girl in college?

 

Posted Mar 6, '13 at 10:08pm

pickpocket

pickpocket

2,889 posts

I don't think anyone can score a collage girl, really.

Collage girls don't change emotion.

I hate you all >:(

Why is it so hard to think that I could have a shot with a girl in college?

Because youre one of us.
Have fun doing whatever a senior shovel does at prom.

 

Posted Mar 6, '13 at 10:10pm

daleks

daleks

2,516 posts

Have fun doing whatever a senior shovel does at prom.

I haven't asked her yet. I plan to ask her over her spring break.

 

Posted Mar 8, '13 at 9:01am

Strop

Strop

10,605 posts

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@fantasy4life

Ok, so if you were kind enough to read the whole story, If you have any advice whatsoever, I would gladly listen to it, I am desperate. I mean it, any advice.

Don't second guess yourself. The entirety of that trainwreck is because you preempted yourself and how you thought your crush might react.

Then again my straightforward approach to people is due to my being hopelessly concrete and starkly transparent at the same time, so when I feel that I'm not going to ruin any lives I will straight up announce to somebody that I like, "I like you", and the reactions are amazing: they range from somebody looking like a bomb fell on their house, to getting jumped. Your own mileage may vary.

 

Posted Mar 8, '13 at 9:33pm

nichodemus

nichodemus

10,521 posts

Ok, so if you were kind enough to read the whole story, If you have any advice whatsoever, I would gladly listen to it, I am desperate. I mean it, any advice.

Several mistakes made here. Firstly, never start a conversation with a crush, and a distant one at that, by confessing. Be casual. Be cool about it. Secondly, don't let her realise she has the power at the first meeting. Be the settler/person being chased, and not the reverse. This allows you to be the power holder in the relationship, as crude and ungentlemanly as it seems. Thirdly, put yourself in her shoes. You liked her because of her looks (seeing as you have never really talked to her). Years later, you approach her, and declare your love. It comes out as plain creepy, even though you aren't.

Asking girl to prom. She is a grade higher than me.

How well do you know her?

 
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