I was watching something on National Geographic the other day and something about asexuals came up. I was a bit intrigued, but they did not go into as much detail as I wanted. I figured that sense we have a good group of discussioners (just made that word up), then we could all learn something.
What is Asexuality?
Wikipedia says: Asexuality describes individuals who do not experience sexual attraction and is considered by some to be a sexual orientation.[1] Asexuality as a human sexual orientation has only been recognized and defined in a few academic studies since the late 1970s, and a community of self-identified asexuals has only coalesced since the start of the 21st century, aided by the widening popularity of online communities.[1] One commonly cited study placed the incidence rate of asexuality at 1%.[2] Asexuality is not the same as celibacy, which is the deliberate abstention from sexual activity; many asexuals do have sex,[3] and most celibates are not asexual.
How does this fit into the Kinsey Sexuality Scale?
Alfred Kinsey was aware of an asexual element in the population but did little to investigate it. His Kinsey scale of sexual orientation consisted of a single axis lying between heterosexuality and homosexuality with bisexuality in between, and thus left no place for asexuality. In the Kinsey Reports of 1948 and 1953, subjects were scaled from 0 (completely heterosexual) to 6 (completely homosexual), but a separate category of X was created for those with "no socio-sexual contacts or reactions".[4][5] He labeled 1.5% of the adult male population as "X"
Questions
1. Is asexuality even real? I am skeptical. I don't see how one could be asexual given the hormones we all have.
2. Do you think it is purely sexual or does it involve romantic notions?
3. Given that it is real and does exist, could it be a result of a trauma?
4. Would you classify this as a mental disorder given the fact that their body has the right hormones, etc?
That symbol up there can be used as a heterosexuality symbol, but it can also be used as a general sex symbol. I remember back in 10th grade when these girls put those gender symbols in the right fashion and the teacher scolded them as they put the symbols as they were up there, because it was to symbolize sex. Which was apparently bad.
Well I have to admit that this whole thaing interests me. Sexuality and society is a complex web. I was once asked how do I "know" Im not gay. I said I just dont think I find men attractive but the minute I do Im sure I will know about it. Im guessing you feel kinda the same Avorne, as in, if you actually found something that attracts you, you would darn well know about it.
Also I rekon most peepz are real uncomfortable with the subject of sex and sexuality, or even lack of, as its a rather personal thing. Sometimes making fun of or attacking people is the only way others feel like they are not the thing they make fun of. Like people taking the piss outta gay people and hating them. Scared of being gay maybe? Maybe they think "If I make fun of this person for this or that then people wont suspect I too feel that way"...
And sometimes buddy, I feel a-frikkin-sexual.
Of course sometimes I feel like a giant wang that needs some luvin.
i don't know what america your looking at, but im pretty sure that theres an old saying here, which is SEX SELLS. doesn't seem to b correlated with a negative inference to me.
From wiki on sex in advertising.
Gallup & Robinson, an advertising and marketing research firm, has reported that in more than 50 years of testing advertising effectiveness, it has found the use of the erotic to be a significantly above-average technique in communicating with the marketplace, "...although one of the more dangerous for the advertiser. Weighted down with taboos and volatile attitudes, sex is a Code Red advertising technique ... handle with care ... seller beware; all of which makes it even more intriguing." This research has led to the popular idea that "sex sells".
MunKy - you just cheered me up immensely. Mage - thank the Flying Spaghetti Monster I have you here. My point was originally meant to be about 'within the education system' and not just 'in general' - however, with Mages added evidence towards my point I think it works both ways really.
MunKy - you just cheered me up immensely. Mage - thank the Flying Spaghetti Monster I have you here.
Awww... yer too kind
its better nowadays to be different, so people figured out ways to be different
People have always been different. What you ranting about boy?
maybe its this ****ed up world which has given the minority power over the norm
This has ALWAYS been the same. The minority has always had power over the majority. Im not sure if you are being slightly sarcastic or agree with me but it seem not dude.
I'd rather you didn't - I understand that you must find it hard to find someone to have intercourse with but, quite frankly, you're not my type.
Laugh out loud. Good stuff Avorne.
**** no, i aint conformerating to yer nonconformist liberal ways. and also, on a side note, ive consulted the oracle, and she tells me that your dumb and you suck.
Although liberalism is seen conformist rebellion it's still a legitimate political ideology. Be nice.
and munky, it is hard to be sarcastic in these dark days. i figure, that balance is needed in the universe, good for bad, light for dark, and so on, so i need to be here, to be on the othere side of all the **** fruits who are too worried about hurting peoples feelings and getting sued to say what alot of people are thinking.
No its not. I laugh at the face of death before shi**ing my trousers. I also have a personal vienetta against people who believe the whole dog eat dogma crap. I have a spoon btw. I like ice cream with chocky swirls. Watch out Reaper!
balance is needed in the universe, good for bad, light for dark, and so on, so i need to be here, to be on the othere side
This is sooooooo bad I need to re-quote it. Its a bad excuse to be offensive. I dont mind people who speak the truth of their mind. I am friends with people like this. But they have tact and feel strongly, they feel love for this world and understand their words have an effect.
Hate and fear, these lead to the dark side young one. Wake teh smeg up! The world doesnt need you to act like this.
hey now, so is being a redneck racist republican, and under that political ideology im free to say that avorne, along with most(not all of course, but most) liberals and gays, and a-sexuals, and most democrats, and um, hispanics i guess, and some jews, are all like really dumb. and stuff.
I love it when people openly display their ignorance, then claim that every ideology they disagree with is somehow intellectually stunted. It's kind of like a sign that says "Don't talk to me, I'm too stupid to get what you are trying to say anyway." Saves me time and effort.
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Just to add... I think your a highly sarcastic person in general. It doesnt translate well into posts. Beware, you might eventually get ignored and then you wont lern nuffink... innit?