As a famous saying goes: "Don't judge a book by it's cover."
Now this can be a very powerful saying do you not agree?
Attracting the opposite sex can be hard and that is very hard to argue otherwise.
Is not the beauty in the eye of the beholder?
So does beauty not contribute in beauty can be only an opinion?
Ok sorry I was in a philosophical mood. But this subject popped into my head (Most likely the teenage hormones kicking in) but what is it that actually attracts a mate?
I know there are certain people out there who aren't the most beautiful people in the world yet still have a love for another being. Does it take time to love someone of the opposite sex or to see the attractiveness of the their body? For me it is usually a female that catches my eye and a simple smile will make me smile sheepishly (as most men do). That is what attracts me to her. Then to learn her feel and takes on thing decides whether or not I want a relationship with her.
But does attractiveness not always comes first? Do you need to spend time with people before you find them attractive? As a friend of mine I spent alot of time with, I didn't see her as attractive until I really looked into her eyes when we were talking and realized how much she spoke from her spirit and her heart not just her emotions that made me extremely attracted to her.
Which of these occurs most? Love at first sight is a very shaky quote and I can say from common knowledge that it is very fake. What do you think?
Oh but the "look but don't touch basis" didn't occur on Thursday when I went to an unsupervised dance and grinded with 3 seniors from the dance squad, don't worry I danced with my gf too. Not bad for a freshmen, eh? ~_^
Love at first sight is a total joke. Yes you can be attreacted to a person at first sight but to really love someone you have you have to know them. It's true that we are more likely to want to get to know a person if we find them physically attractive but you can also develop a physical attraction to a person we've known for a while. To really love someone you have to actually know them. "Love at first sight" isn't love at all, it's lust. Hormones aren't the only thing required for love the has to be mental attration and compatiblity as well. If you're really really attracted to a person but you don't share any interests or get along with eachother a relationship just won't work.
Well Im not really sure because I always get these random girls to like me and I don`t even talk to them but the ones that I actually like don`t seem to like me very much at all
