I've been having troubles with my ex and my current girlfriend for a few days now. It all started a few days ago when I broke up with my girlfriend Natalie for another girl, Isabel. I made up some lame excuse for breaking up with Natalie and she was extremely hurt. I then proceeded to ask out Isabel on the same day and she told me that I should wait awhile but that she would love to be my girlfriend. I guess I was a little too anxious and asked Natalie if she wanted to hang out with me the next day, she accepted.
That day when we were hanging out by the park, I proceeded to kiss Natalie and we started making out. I had to stop because she had to get home and I said goodbye to her and left. I felt so guilty after that, that I was thinking about cutting off all communication with Natalie so that would never happen again but for some reason I couldn't. Now I'm here sitting at my computer wondering what I should do. I really like Isabel but I also still have feelings for Natalie, so I'm really confused.
P: There happens to be a girl named Isabel who likes me~
P: Anyways, I don't think you should of rushed into it with Isi. You should of left it a bit. Buuutt.... I really can't help you if you like both of them. Why did you leave Natalie?
Before taking any advice, understand who you are asking. Mostly 12-16 year olds with little to no succesful relationship experiance.
Anyway, you need to get your priorities straight. Are you mad because you feel guilty for leading your ex on or do you feel bad for going back to her after asking the other one out? To be honest you just signed your own death warrent.
Yeah, first of all you must check the age in the users profile, so that you can see if you can trust the answer or not. Maybe there will be people under 12 years coming here saying stupid stuff.
In my opinion you screwed up since the beginning, why leave your girlfriend if you still feel something for her? I know a man have instincts, and if Isabel appeared in your life (and i don't know how she looks), you must be strong and a decent man, so that you don't betray your gf. That's the worst thing you can do.
First,I think you must put your head in the place, and take conclusions of your feelings, because if you do sh*t, you have a risk of ending alone, without any girl. After that, you can date the girl who you really love, and be happy forever ^^
Well, not that it isn't natural, but it's strongly looked down upon by others because it is regarded as the height of insensitivity. Then there's also the "going out on the rebound" but I don't think that's relevant here- that kind of issue usually comes about once you start having longer term relationships.
At any rate, it's pretty safe to say JWE is largely governed by his body more than his mind, because the mind is not, at this stage, used to thinking about these things. Be honest with yourself- in what way exactly do you have "feelings" for a person?
First thing you can do though: tell both parties you've screwed up and need some time to get yourself sorted. At this point I generally get a "but I caaaaan't" from other kids, but frankly if that's the case then you'll just have to learn the hard way.
But most likely a true one. I assure you, most teenagers are governed more by their bodies than their minds and this remains true for many well into their adulthood.
If you think you're a rational being, think again. The best people can do is to pretend to be rational.
They will kill him. Horribly.
Best to face death like a man then! The alternative is a slow, festering social death by word of mouth, with prolonged bouts of persecution and torture.
I'm not sure JWE wants to now that we've said all that we have...
...which brings me to my next point. It is generally unwise to (genuinely) ask for relationship help on an internet forum because, well, you'll have all these random opinions from people who don't even know you, and, depending on the location, opinions from people who want to screw with your mind. If you posted this on a /b/ forum, well, I suppose the next thing we'd see from you was an obituary, one way or the other!
Obviously, if one were taking the piss, then it would be similarly unwise to reveal this D:
Anyway, the last action belongs to JWE. He might read all the stuff here, and see what suits what is better for him. I think he already have something in mind, despite our thinkings.
But one thing is for sure, 2 girls loving a guy? i think it never happened to me O_o
