Ask away in here. Before you all go accusing me of being some loser, just don't. I know I'm not the girl master, but I do know a lot about them, why they do certain things that they do, so on and so forth. So don't be shy =D
I think Bjiscuit is not just talking about sex; we can learn from many different kinds of mistakes: such as not spending enough time with our bf/gf (and putting other people/things ahead of them), we can learn how to kiss better, how to be more thoughtful, we can even learn to be a better person with more life/dating experience.
You're not alone, Bjiscuit. While "That's what she said" jokes can be rather amusing at times, I think sex is very overrated. A real act of love would be basing a relationship out of something else. A real act of lust, even if there is love in the relationship, would be the sex itself.
Well said. True love is not physical. It's a commitment, plain and simple. That's why teenagers, like myself, have a hard time keeping a relationship going, because there is no need for commit this early in life. That's why people shouldn't feel bad when breaking up with somebody. It may hurt them at the time, but as long as you had a good, non-superficial reason for doing so, it can only help them in the end.
just wondering, how meany people think that your first girlfriend or boyfriend could be your true love, wit out dating around ??
I think it's very possible. I know a lot of people think experience is necessary, but for matters of the heart, experience just means you know what lust feels like (which is unavoidable, don't get me wrong). Love might be easier to recognize with experience, as you can compare, but I think you could be in love with your first boy/girlfriend.
Well, I sure hope I am one of those rare relationships. Like I said before, my boyfriend and I started dating at 16. He was my first bf, and I his first gf. Its been almost 6 years, and someday in the not so far future we will get married (tho..I can't think about that yet--I'm still a college student--we still have at least a few more months before we have to be mature adults)!!! : D
well yea trayz, I think you're very smart for establishing a secure financial foundation before you marry. Too many people nowadays get married so young, and a lot of times it just falls apart. so kudos to you =)
Well, I sure hope I am one of those rare relationships. Like I said before, my boyfriend and I started dating at 16. He was my first bf, and I his first gf. Its been almost 6 years, and someday in the not so far future we will get married
OMG that is so awesome, its the same wit me and my boyfriend *only not 6 years* we started dating when I was almost 16 and he alomst 15.... lol I kinda hope im one of the rare relationships 2 .....
Well, I sure hope I am one of those rare relationships. Like I said before, my boyfriend and I started dating at 16. He was my first bf, and I his first gf.
WTF!!!! im not saying that yalls relationships is bad but how is it that a 16yr old dude and chick never had a gf or bf my first girl friend was in first grade...answer me this why didnt you date before you where 16?
Personally, I thought dating was ridiculous prior to high school. Come on HoodHulk--you can't say you have a real serious gf in the first grade! Prior the being a teenager, you don't really go on dates, you never get "alone" time. You can't even drive yourselves out until at least 16. I guess I just saw that the only things early dating lead to was sadness, heartbreak, and not talking to each other anymore. I much rather be best friends with my crushes and not date, than end up no speaking in a matter of days/months.
@trayzrulz Well yeah your right I've never had a serious relationship but i went out on dates when i was like 8-9 and stuff, and since i don't think i want a serious gf you know? just a new squeeze. well that's what I'm guessing cause i always have a girl as my back up. when I'm out of a relationship i bounce back quick and go for another chick, i don't think I'm the type of guy that could be serious in a relationship unless i really really can say i love her and mean it you know?
