this year i have decided to not get into any relationships because they interfere with my school and social life but i began really liking a girl in my school this year. she just came to my school this year and she is my type of girl. but she likes me and also likes another guy which is sort of an issue. and the other guy is a good friend of mine. i have no clue what to do someone wanna help me out
Well, you have a choice to make. Pursue the girl and put your social and school life in jeopardy, or give her up in favor of your grades and let your friend take her. Honestly, whatever floats your boat. Personally, I'd go for the girl especially if she liked me, but that's just me.
yeah ik what u mean but like me and the guy are both really good friends with her and she liked him first and then we started hanging out and now she likes me. like we already kissed and everything and she knows i like her and ik she likes me and we both no the whole situation but i feel utterly unable to decide what i want
Well, I'd say at this point it depends on a couple of things. Do you currently have good grades? If you don't, maybe an affair with her is not the smartest choice. If they are good, then find a way to balance school with your social life. I'm telling you, this is a rare opportunity for some, you might as well seize it and make the most of it.
the heart wants what the heart wants.... but is this a girl that you can see yourself for a wile, or just a month or so?? if its only a month or so think they I say dont go for it, but if she is someone you can really see yourself wit, they I say go for it, as for your friend, if he is really your friend he will understand .... and I understand were you are... me and one of my friends liked the same guy, I just left it alone. and well long story short he is now my boyfriend
this year i have decided to not get into any relationships because they interfere with my school and social life
Sometimes good things come at unexpected times. But if you really are needing to focus on your future, you might want to hold off pursuing this girl until you feel comfortable enough to balance everything going on. Since this girl is not actually dating your friend, you are definitely in the clear to court her! Don't miss out on a great opportunity because you are worried about another guy. If you feel that worried about your friendship with the other guy I would straight out tell him that you are going to ask her out as you really like her. A true friend would understand.
What type of relationship are you looking fro with her? Just asking since by the sound of it she doesn't exactly sound like the long term type to me. If that's the relationship your going for with her, I have to wonder what will happen when the next guy who catches her eye comes along.
