me and my ex just broke up like a week ago and lets just say im about to go over to hang out with her and one of my best friends candace, with like my brother chris.
lets just say she wants his dick pretty bad. he told me he wouldnt be hitting on her and stuff if we went but... wouldnt be the first hes tried and hit on my gf/ex and i dont know wether i should just let him go by himself or should i go too.
im debating cause i know chris woiuld too cause i know him to good.
i still have very strong feelings for this girl and i was just wondering what i should do? should i stay at my house or go with chris?
I think that if you tell him not to go, you'll just piss him off and if you don't he will go anyways. It's your friends choice in the end, no matter what you say, so just don't get involved and don't ask about what happens. Ignorance is bliss.
If you still like the girl, you should tell Chris that.
he does know that.... and i just decided to go like a jakass lol and exactly wat i thought would happen happened.. sory i didnt listen to ya guys. i was trying to be a good fried and i failed
So basically, you like your ex girlfrined who obvioulsy has no feelings for you. And your going to her house. Theres your first problem. Don't even look at her. She will fade.
Then, your going with your frined chris, who she likes? Let him take her. If she broke up with you, chances are she moved on, and holding her, or chris back is wrong.
Get some grass, and just chill. LIfes to short to worry man, besides, relationships are trouble. You'll be happier in a bit.
I agree with skater_kid_who_pwns. You won't get over her if you see her. You may get anxious about what happened if you don't go but it will be worse if you do go.
never ask about relationship advice on a site filled with immature kids.
i know but i know some people on here do know what there talking about somtimes and arnt haters most of the time. didnt have no one else to ask so i figured "why not!"
You want the bottom line, even though it is not going to be nice? /rhetorical question
You obviously were not good for her in some shape, way or form. At least in her mind. You might not even of been horrible or done anything wrong, she just might of gotten bored with you. Women do that. You need to get over her.
Chris is not your real friend then. Anyone with one shred of dignity would not do that to a friend of theirs, especially not so soon after. A year or so after is more acceptable. It gives you some time for the wounds to scar over. Don't hang out with him or her, even more so not when they are together. Trust me: It will not be a fun lil' tea party.
You are only 15 (or at least according to your profile). This stuff will happen more times than you care to think about in your life. If not the same scenario, very close to it. You need to distance yourself from them. Don't hang out with them, don't talk to them in person or over the phone or online. Severing all contact will help ease the pain. Talking to them will only make the grave wounds inflicted upon you fester and puss and bleed.
That's all you can do. That's what you -have- to do or else it will only get worse. It may be hard not talking to them. Yet it will be even harder to see them together and happy and talking about each other.
Don't worry, your relationships at the moment are just a game. Honestly, when you grow out of the phase, you'll begin to look at relationships a little better, with more understanding, and you'll feel as if their a lot more important.
The high-school relationship phase is just a game, you break up with one girl, get another, it's not true to what you at the time think is 'love'.
The high-school relationship phase is just a game, you break up with one girl, get another, it's not true to what you at the time think is 'love'.
Not all the time.
In this case however it seems she really didn't take it as seriously as delossantosj. It would seem she isn't very good for you delossantosj. If this other guy really is a true friend he won't mind waiting for you to get over her a little more before presuming a relationship himself.
a:get over her or else you will be the male equivelent of a woman with 27 cats b:you broke up who cares if your bro dates her that is his decision c:spammers should get the **** back on the topic
