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yielee
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I saw part of this loveline on another website so I copied and filled in the rest with the cheating episodes of Jesse James on Sandra Bullock. There are two more mistresses but this is what I got so far:

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2003: Sandra Bullock and Jesse James start dating.

July 2005: Self-announced "Soul-mates", Bullock and James married in a romantic, sunset wedding in Santa Barbara, CA, surrounded by 300 of their family and friends, including William Shatner and Regina King. Her first marriage, his third marriage.

Sept 2006: James starts 2-year affair with Melissa Smith.

May, 2007: Bullock got a restraining order against an obsessed fan who allegedly attempted to run over James. A judge ordered Marcia Valentine to stay at least 500 feet away from the star and her family for the next three years.

April 2008: The couple was involved in a car accident in Gloucester, MA. They were being driven to their hotel when another car came swerving toward them, an observer said, and the vehicles collided at 15-20 miles per hour. Both cars were towed from the scene and nobody was hurt. The driver of the other car was arrested on suspicion of driving under the influence.

May 2008: James ends affair with Smith

Sept 2008: James starts affair with Brigitte Daguerre

May 2009: Starts affair with Michelle McGee

Sept 2009: Ends affair with Brigitte Daguerre

December 2009: An Orange County family court denies a request to expand visitation rights to James' ex-wife, porno star Janine Lindemulder, after she sought overnight visits with their 5-year-old daughter, Sunny.

March 7, 2010: Bullock wins Oscar for Best Actress for her role in 'The Blind Side,' where James gives her a standing ovation and tears up during her acceptance speech.

March 2010: Ends affair with Michelle McGee.

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So why do guys cheat even after they say they will love them forever?

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nonconformist
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why do guys cheat? I find that very sexist... And btw guys cheat when the girls arent giving them the pleasure they want anymore... Or they've fallen out of love... One of the two... So guys cheat because of the girls. =O. yea thats right, i turned that one around.

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Oh God, not more high-and-mighty chicks-over-d**ks Ellen Jamesian anti-masculinist crap . . . .

Anyway, guys cheat for the same reason girls do.

WexMajor82
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In my opinion the reason is this:
lose a coin and you can get another, even if not the same;
lose a f**k and even if you can get another, it's not the same.

pHacon
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That's a little brutal, man.
Shows how much respect you have for the opposite sex, unless of course you're only talking about sex, not saying that that's all that they are useful for.

WexMajor82
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Of course I am talking about sex.
What do you think I am? Some chauvinistic moron from 1950?

Cavlery
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First of all, not only men cheat.

Secondly, people cheat because they're bored, and when you're bored you become 'adventurous'. This is a dangerous mentality because you start to want to push your partner, see how far they'll put up with misbehaving before they snap. Cheating is usually the final straw

delossantosj
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........ every girl ive gone out with has cheated on me.... not me to them so i think guys dont cheat... its jsut the media that blows things into a sexist format

BrianWV
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guys cheat because they can. Women are too quick to forgive and guys know that.

Evilginger
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Women also cheats on guys to.Believe me its happened to me twice.I've never cheated I guess I'm too loyal LOL.

yielee
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I guess what I meant was guys who do it all the time. It's like they can't stop. This guy James was married like 3 times and never stopped cheating on his wives and then he met Sandra Bullock and it was her 1st marriage, and he knew he's gonna cheat on her, but he marries her anyway. Why do that to someone? That's so hurtufl. Anyway, here's the update that I promised I'd show, and Ernie sort of hinted that I should fix is so.

On the other side, maybe Sandra Bullock is strange for thinking he'd change. She knew what she was getting into when he said his 3rd wife was a porno star. I mean, maybe if your in Hollywood, and someone's cheating but there's a camera in front of them, then it doesn't count? Anyways, I put bold on all the dates wherever he was cheating or stopped cheating. I guess there's no real answer to this chronic kind of cheating. He's getting some kind of treatment nowadays so he should be cured in a few weeks.

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Oct 2002: James marries adult film star Janine Lindemulder.

May 2003: James separates from Lindemulder after learning that she's pregnant and keeping the baby (Sunny).

Oct 2003: James files for divorce.

Feb 2004: James starts dating Sandra Bullock.

Mar 2004: James says, "all of her friends, absolutely, like 100 percent, were like, 'No way, we're putting a stop to this. This is no good.'"

Sept 2004: James asks Lindemulder to cheat with him.

July 2005: Bullock and James marry.

Sept 2005: James phones Lindemulder, "I think I made a huge mistake," wants to cheat with her again.

May 2006: Tries to cheat with employee, but she turned him down, harrasses her for a year.

July 2006: James says, "She pushes me to be a better person. It ... makes me feel like I'm Superman."

Sept 2006: Starts cheating with Melissa Smith.

May 2007: Starts cheating with anonymous 4th woman.

Sept 2007: James and employee settle sexual harrassment lawsuit for $700,000.

May 2008: Stops cheating with Smith

Sept 2008: Starts cheating with Brigitte Daguerre

May 2009: James says, "Bullock is absolutely the best lover" he's ever had.

May 2009: Starts cheating with Michelle McGee

Sept 2009: Stops cheating with Brigitte Daguerre

March 7, 2010: At the Oscars, James says, "It's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to support my wife and her work. She does it all the time for me. She goes to Mexico, to the desert, to the hospital -- a lot -- to support me and my work. The least I can do is put on a suit and support her."

March 16, 2010: McGee says he's a cheater, and stops cheating with him.

March 2010: Anonymous 4th woman stops cheating with James.

KMRaider
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but he marries her anyway. Why do that to someone?


Was he famous before her?

If so, this is irrelevant
She has money. And fame.
Unless he was famous before, she pretty much 'made' him. He used her fame.
delossantosj
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this is jsut famous guys that cheat on women....... anybody noticed. i dont know any cheaters that are guys at all.... lets face it the media is sexist pure and simple. either that or an alien wizard has cast his spell and he has turned invisible and we must find him and kill him to get rid of our sex addiction

Evilginger
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this is jsut famous guys that cheat on women


I agree.Tiger Woods and John Terry.Its cos they think they above the law and other people.
valkery
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Guys cheat becouse we can. Admittedly, those who cheat on extremely hot women (Tiger Woods) are stupid for doing so.

Zanto_zsnes
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Because some of them are ignorant, cheap & heartbreaker's, and truly heartless.

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