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yielee
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I saw part of this loveline on another website so I copied and filled in the rest with the cheating episodes of Jesse James on Sandra Bullock. There are two more mistresses but this is what I got so far:

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2003: Sandra Bullock and Jesse James start dating.

July 2005: Self-announced "Soul-mates", Bullock and James married in a romantic, sunset wedding in Santa Barbara, CA, surrounded by 300 of their family and friends, including William Shatner and Regina King. Her first marriage, his third marriage.

Sept 2006: James starts 2-year affair with Melissa Smith.

May, 2007: Bullock got a restraining order against an obsessed fan who allegedly attempted to run over James. A judge ordered Marcia Valentine to stay at least 500 feet away from the star and her family for the next three years.

April 2008: The couple was involved in a car accident in Gloucester, MA. They were being driven to their hotel when another car came swerving toward them, an observer said, and the vehicles collided at 15-20 miles per hour. Both cars were towed from the scene and nobody was hurt. The driver of the other car was arrested on suspicion of driving under the influence.

May 2008: James ends affair with Smith

Sept 2008: James starts affair with Brigitte Daguerre

May 2009: Starts affair with Michelle McGee

Sept 2009: Ends affair with Brigitte Daguerre

December 2009: An Orange County family court denies a request to expand visitation rights to James' ex-wife, porno star Janine Lindemulder, after she sought overnight visits with their 5-year-old daughter, Sunny.

March 7, 2010: Bullock wins Oscar for Best Actress for her role in 'The Blind Side,' where James gives her a standing ovation and tears up during her acceptance speech.

March 2010: Ends affair with Michelle McGee.

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So why do guys cheat even after they say they will love them forever?

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KMRaider
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this is jsut famous guys that cheat on women.... i dont know any cheaters that are guys at all


Not really, if famous people do it, then normal people do it, just less often. They're also less likely to be figured out, their lives aren't constantly monitored by the public, the person cheated with can't sell the story...

And I don't think people are likely to tell you if they cheat...
Not knowing something doesn't make it nonexistent...
Holden012
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Not All Guys Cheat . It only the a hole guys. Cheating is'nt cool whether it's a test or on a girl . Never cheat , It gives you a bad reputation.

BenTheBozer
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The same reason girls do, so dont and try to play the blame game.

goumas13
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The main reasons I can think of are:
-Boredom
-Unhappiness
-Fear of commitment
-Low self esteem
-Men crave sexual variety

But there are also various others.

Asherlee
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This made sense to me, I read it somewhere about when guys cheat on extremely attractive women it is a power issue. This is your Jesse James, Hugh Grant, Jude Law syndrome. (I know of personal examples as well)

Another reason men cheat, to make the woman break up with them.

Also, I believe men might also cheat is because of a deep instinct to spread your seed. Something subconscious like that.

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What is interesting is look at the relationship habits of homosexuals, and each sex specifically. More lesbians are willing and wanting to be in a long-term committed relationship. Whereas, gay men will maintain a long-term relationship, but it is more likely to be an open-relationship.

Sex to a man is very different from sex to a female.

goumas13
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I believe men might also cheat is because of a deep instinct to spread your seed. Something subconscious like that.

I think so too. The man is -somehow- biologically programmed to create as many offspring as he can, so to achieve this biological goal he has to have sexual relations with many women and not only one.
assassin89
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Trust be if a guy cheated on me i would smash up theyre cars and if they didnt have one then id cut his um... areas off so he couldnt do it again.

MageGrayWolf
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Trust be if a guy cheated on me i would smash up theyre cars and if they didnt have one then id cut his um... areas off so he couldnt do it again.


That's what I call a good reason for every guy who's going to cheat to own a car.
Maverick5762
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That's what I call a good reason for every guy who's going to cheat to own a car.


rofl!

And a good reason not to date crazy bitches... if you can find a sane woman..
SirLegendary
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They are not ready to have commitments.
They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship.
They are concerned aobut their financial/living situation if they end the relationship, but do not feel fulfilled in it.
They like various sex partners.
They crave the initial excitement and illicitness of a "secret" affair.
They need to feel desired and their partner does not fulfill that need.
Men are single-minded and don't think about the consequences of their actions.
Some men cheat because they think they can get by with it.
Some cheat because they don't take their relationships seriously.
Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres.
Men stray outside of long-term relationships to remember what it was like to be desirable and free. "Schedules" and routine destroy self image.
The woman's sex drive isn't what it was when you first got married.
Having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for those with low self-esteem.
Men cheat because they are bored in their current relationships
The man perceives that the partner is bored with or no longer interested in sex.
Lack of or poor communication with the spouse/girlfriend can lead a man to cheat.
other people are something new and different
you have no old baggage with someone new
maybe they want something with ''no strings''
different people have different likes and dislikes
their spouses might not be interested in doing the sexual things the men want to try out (e.g. oral, greek, 3-ways, etc.) or even afraid or morally against such kinks.

from: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_do_men_always_cheat

thepossum
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Cheating is natural. It's natural for males to want to be the alpha male, and, as the alpha male, to be the one who gets ALL the girls. That's just how it works.

SirLegendary
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Not all though do cheat actually.

Brotheromar
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Girls cheat too, just as much as guys in my oppinion. There are a select few out there who don't.

nonconformist
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well to follow up this question with another question, why do girls cheat? And once you think this over in your head a couple times, you'll finally realize why men cheat...

cenation
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women do cheat as much as men do they just neverf talk about it

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