i fell (for what i assume is) in love with this girl i met at the rennisance fair and only got to talk to for about 20minutes (total 5mins,5mins,10mins) and all i know is her first name and i dont know her age (16-23+) and im only 13 but its completely different than i have felt for any other girl and i dont even know her or know if ill ever get to see her again
lol ive made my desision and btw i couldnt think of another op so my second issue had nothing todo with love
p.s. ive choosen to have me ex-wingman dude destract her friends while she walks away then im gonna talk to her and talk to her then (this will sound womenizing) then dump her and talk to the russian girl*
*possibly, other girl might be something so russians just a backup plan
Why do you need her friends distracted? Crazy idea: Talk to her with her friends. Maybe be one of her friends. I think that's the best course of action; I don't think a mindset like this is going to lead to a healthy or happy relationship.
Most of the time if your her friend she will only see you as "Her friend" so its a kinda win lose situation, my advice would be tell her that you like her and because your younger you will get the cute factor and hey you might even get a kiss.
Most of the time if your her friend she will only see you as "Her friend"
That would be ideal in this situation. I'm not telling him how I think he should "get the girl". I'm saying he should consider a reevaluation of his priorities and motives.
Also, the idea that friendship adversely affects the possibility of future relationships seems silly. It's not that someone won't go out with someone just because he or she is a friend; people are often good friends with those who do not meet their standard for romantic relationships.
p.s. ive choosen to have me ex-wingman dude destract her friends while she walks away then im gonna talk to her and talk to her then (this will sound womenizing) then dump her and talk to the russian girl*
In middle shcool I used to beat guy up for doing crap like that. so just make sure no one can clean your clock.
[quote]NO. I also do not like the objectification of women..[quote] Yeah they have feelings too yo if you dump a girl and then the minute after that you go hit on another your just making an A$$ of yourself
I would agree with the overall statement by AKguy, but without all of the swearing and anger management issues. He is right though; you are just thirteen and belive me, when you think you are in love at thirteen, dude it is definately your pituitary gland talking. Not your actual, non-hormonic brain.
I disagree. It's true that most of the love things before an age of 16 or so is not that important but more curiousity what you realise later. But i don't think there's a real age line, some people from the age of 14 can really be in love i think. It's just that people who are older have more experience but that doesn't mean younger people can't feel love
