i fell (for what i assume is) in love with this girl i met at the rennisance fair and only got to talk to for about 20minutes (total 5mins,5mins,10mins) and all i know is her first name and i dont know her age (16-23+) and im only 13 but its completely different than i have felt for any other girl and i dont even know her or know if ill ever get to see her again
This is an issue of brain chemistry. Kids your age are scarcely capable of making sound decisions. I'll admit, painfully, when I was your age I had similar experiences, so I come from a position of true sympathy. Take solace that within the next decade or so you should find a much more stable internal environment.
Or else, whatever neurosis you have currently will be exacerbated and you may end up a strange obsessive shadow of a person, leeching off of the people around you.
god its not love anymore and besides im going after someone else because my ex-wingman dude that we shall call rodtardo f----- me up the one chick and i dont like the russin anymore and also this new girl is like super amazing but everyone says thats shes fat but shes from (100-150) but shes shorter than me (im 5'6" but shes so amazing but i dont even know her name XD
p.s. for all them haters that hate on my and my coolio style or pawns, wing men and womenizing then back off
p.s.s. and i think that this thread is now just my storys with the girls at skool that i like =D
I think you should consider the implications of this.
btw someone plz talk to me i need + want someone to talk to
Perhaps if you applied this sort of mindset to your other interpersonal ventures, you would find yourself more easily building meaningful and satisfying romantic relationships.
If you want some conversation, displaying some respect for the feelings of others seems to be a logical place to start.
This is super cute, I have a 13 year old nephew who has asked me for girl advice...
I truly understand, because I've felt these feelings that you're having lots of times! I know it's hard to think logically when you're attracted to someone, but I can tell you from personal experience that you'll find the right person when you're both ready. The feelings you have right now suck, and it's frustrating, but honestly, it's just going to get more intense. At 13, you've got a lot of time to kill before you find the right girl. You just have to remind yourself that what you're feeling for this girl that you hardly know is infatuation. Love always stems from infatuation, because being attracted to someone and enjoying their company can easily lead to love.
You have to realize too that there is absolutely no such thing as "the one" in the sense that there's only one girl out there for you. How sad would life be if this was true? I think one of the reasons why divorce rates are so high today is because as a society we indulge in sappy love stories and some never realize that it's merely fiction. The reality is that there are millions of girls who would suit you just as well or even better than your renaissance lady, you just have to have patience.
I'm 26, I've dated a lot and I've had my share of serious relationships, and I was able to get over them all. My last break-up a few years ago was a really sad one, I felt like I would never get over it (we were planning on marriage). If you're feeling hopeless, just do what I did. I made sure that I had plans every night, and I never turned down a date (you can ask girls).
I've actually been married for a little over a year now, my husband is opposite of that last guy, and I couldn't be happier. So really, don't fret too much about this, it really will pass, and soon another girl will blow your mind. Just remember to get her number next time.
Ugh it's 2am, I need to sleep. I hope this makes you feel a little better.
Perhaps if you applied this sort of mindset to your other interpersonal ventures, you would find yourself more easily building meaningful and satisfying romantic relationships.
ya dude just for furture try not to fall for girls. be carefull who you try and go for cause you might get hurt. its really harrd but thats what it takes sometime
YEah i have leraned my lesson there because girls are back stabber5s at times and also i understand what you guys are sayying because i feel exactly for this new new new girl (one after russin and c.s.b.f chick) as i did for the first girl, maggie
you guys have all helped me a little o.o (even the trolls and flamers) because now i understand that in real life there is no real love
So from now on i will contunue my pursuit of happiness knowing that with no love there is just the sence of being happy with person you choose but i am proud to say that i will do what ever i deem necicary, weither legal or not haha jk but i will follow what ever i desire and ill just ride fate to the end: very little thing that happens and doesnt happen is that way for a reason, once im happy with my currant plot move on to the next, what ever needs to be done (allmost sayyed who ever X-D) will. These are my goals in life, These are my ten commandments (even if theres only 4) these are the rules to live life by
NOMNOMNOM. WAFFLES ARE GOOD. [quote]So from now on i will contunue my pursuit of happiness knowing that with no love there is just the sence of being happy with person you choose but i am proud to say that i will do what ever i deem necicary, weither legal or not haha jk but i will follow what ever i desire and ill just ride fate to the end: very little thing that happens and doesnt happen is that way for a reason, once im happy with my currant plot move on to the next, what ever needs to be done (allmost sayyed who ever X-D) will. These are my goals in life, These are my ten commandments (even if theres only 4) these are the rules to live life by
I will doo what ever whenever to get to happness 1) I didn;t read this becuase its too long. 2) WAIT TO GOOO!
