I believe... That those who believe in ghosts are gullible and weak-minded. Seeking not a logical explanation but to delve themselves further and further into pits of supernaturalism and superstition.
A few days after my grandfather died and was buried we were in the house he lived in (with my grandma) and i was on the balcony, and when i looked into the house and saw him sitting on the couch wearing the same clothes as he was in the picture of him on the wall. He smiled, winked at me and disappeared.
wearing the same clothes as he was in the picture of him on the wall
Your experience would be more unsettling if he actually wore something you never saw yourself, but could describe to your grandmother and she would recognize it. But as you tell it I'm inclined to think that this was your imagination. Not that I doubt what you tell, I'm pretty sure you saw what you described, and I don't want to offend you. But maybe what you saw was only in your head.
Ok, I before I answer I have to make it known that if you search on Yahoo Answers under the Paranormal category, you'll pee your pants laughing at some of the questions/answers. I think my personal favorite is this one:
The question is RIDICULOUS, all of the answers are hysterical, but my husband's answer is golden (He's George, with the Mike Honcho profile pic).
I believe in God, I believe that there's a spirit world, but I'm positive that dead people have better things to do than walking around freaking people out. And I really think that there may be a small minority of folks who've actually seen something legit, but there are so many tards who claim that they see paranormal stuff that you'd never know what's real and what's not. I've always been able to find a logical explanation for any experience, and if people were a little more reasonable they would too.