I have been known to flirt outrageously for fun many of my friends and people i know have seen this. it is all fine until some girls i am not attracted to take me seriously and ask me out (not at the same time). my flirting is obviously fake but i find it irritating to try and explain this to the girls that believe me.it upset them and made me wonder if they ever had someone tell them that there is such thing as fake flirting. i have had several relationships so you can take your relationship advice and shove it. i am not going to stop doing this by the way.Any advice, questions or a humorous story is perfectly acceptable. i'll give more info if asked for.
no no! i only do it when i think no ones taking it seriously.
And that is where your mistake lies. Somebody will always misinterpret you as nobody has powers of mind control. Also it's offensive for somebody to respond to your flirting only to be told "sorry, I was faking it" (think about other contexts in which this line may be applied, and you will understand.)
Basically flirting is flirting. As a game there's nothing in it to tell between 'fake' or 'real', which is why some people I know continuously receive unwelcome advances... and others a long line of suitors. Take home message: if you don't want to send messages of potential attraction, don't flirt at all.
