I like this girl, but i just cant ask her out. any help would rock. i think she likes me too but im not sure. shes a lil' more popular than me so i dont know what to to. <3 E.V
Honestly Lostsage, you'll never know either way unless you simply ask her. The worst thing that could happen is shes not interested in you, that way....yet. I can tell you that if she IS interested and is waiting for you to make the first move, the longer you wait to do so will give her the impression that you dont like HER. That could result in you both missing out on a possibly great relationship.
Yea, just go ask her out, even if you don't know her. Don't become her frined, because then she can say "I only like you as a frined" Or "it would ruin our frinedship!"
****, I have the same thing happening with me.. xD
Me three! There's this girl I've known for only like 3 months now and people keep telling me she probably likes me because she always says hi to me when she sees me in the halls and gets excited and stuff, and I like her a little bit too, but I just can't gain the confidence ask her out. She might have a boyfriend too but I'm not sure.
Just go for it. If you REALLY want to keep her, when you ask her out tell her no matter what happens, that you want to stay friends, if you already know each other quite well. This could backfire horribly, though.
Just go for it. If you REALLY want to keep her, when you ask her out tell her no matter what happens, that you want to stay friends, if you already know each other quite well.
That's very true. I forgot to mention that I'm a junior and she's a freshman, which could be pretty creepy too. I'll get my black van... Also the fact that she can be pretty creepy at times. I won't go into detail.
This could backfire horribly, though.
That's true too. She's WAY out of my league, as in she's very attractive (I won't go into detail about certain body parts, lol) and the fact that I'm just afraid of being rejected, and then her never talking to me again.
That's true too. She's WAY out of my league, as in she's very attractive (I won't go into detail about certain body parts, lol) and the fact that I'm just afraid of being rejected, and then her never talking to me again.
Then again, she is a freshman...
Wow.. I was in pretty much the same situation as you, although she was only a year older. I went for it and it turns out she did like me, and we went out a couple times but it didn't work out (that's a whole nother story LOL).
I don't think you have anything to lose, unless you're already great friends with her. You probably don't have the same social circles I assume since you are fairly different in age. And that attractiveness is no good as a friend, and you're not gettin' some LOL (I kid)
Two tips (that were surely already said some times, but they're important):
- Try to look out for occasions to talk to her. Try to enter her life more consequently, but be careful. Don't rush her. - Don't wait too long. Some may be patient, most are not.
