I like this girl, but i just cant ask her out. any help would rock. i think she likes me too but im not sure. shes a lil' more popular than me so i dont know what to to. <3 E.V
There never is really a definite answer to these types of situations, because it all depends on the individuals involved. You could just ask her, but if shes not to responsive, at least keep your options open.
("If you're have girl problems I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems and a ***** ain't one"
You should probably get to know her some more before you asked her out, if you haven't already. If you ask her out without really knowing her, then she is more likely to say "no" because she may think that you want to just go out with her for superficial reasons.
Once you talk to her more, you can ask her out. Be confident when you do ask her, and be friendly (as in smile, or be nice, and don't get nervous). If she says yes, that's great. If not, then be cool about it and just say, "Oh, alright. That's cool." Don't let it disappoint you if that happens. There are other girls out there that would want to go out with you.
I've noticed that if someone doesn't like there's not much you can do to get them to like. Plus if you have to run through all these hoops to "trick" someone into "liking" you why bother? They won't be liking you for who you are and even if you can appear "cool" at first eventually, if that fake cooleness you initially presented wasn't how you really are, the other person will see what you are really like eventually and the relationship won't work out.
