I really like this girl and we were good friends in elementary school but his kid named Jordan was mean to her in 6th grade so she switched to the other school in our district. Now we never see each other and aren't even friends and she has a BoyFriend! I met up with her at this yoghurt store but it was just weird. I have 2 months till' summer and that's my only chance to see her. All I'm doing is trying to get ripped and succeeding but I only have two months! I am really shy to her and I really need help. I hope she dumps him though! Someone plz help!
No she lives near my house but we never see each other. She is happy with her boyfriend and I hope if something happens she doesn't get hurt and no my logic is not for her to break up with him due to my muscles but I want to look good when I go to her pool shirtless.
Hmm, this is a tuffy. Id just be patient, first thing to do is recreate that bond of friendship before you think dating and that may take some time. Also, since this is probably high school, relationships never last long so they should break up sooner or later, and if something happens where she gets hurt, you need to help her through it. Hopefully that helps. I guess trying to see her more could help too? But that may be difficult, i guess
If you actually cared about her, wouldn't you want her to be happy? Seems to me you're being selfish.
It would seem so, but hell, when a you watch a girl youve fallen for and almost have a depressate need to be make out during a dance with some idiot who breaks off the relationship only to crawl back to her every 3 weeks or so, it kinda pisses you off and makes you jealous. Its hard to deal with and it feels like youre going to break down every night. I don't think its selfish, you do want her to be happy, but we can't all be Cyrano de Bergerac.
Don't interfere with other people's personal lives, it makes you seem like a ****.
oh, never do that. I just stood back and watched it all happened, while talking to her as usual as good friends. Interfering in someone else's life, except in the extreme necessary chances, just makes things worse
I know I am not trying to be selfish but I don't even see why she's dating this guy, he's butt ugly and a complete moron. I haven't talked to her in forever except on spring break at yoghurt land w/ my friends but that was just awkward. I'm not even apart of her life so I can't really butt in. I am gonna slide in because there is this creek by her house that we go to and when we were younger she would come down w/ me and hang out. So I'm gonna go to the creek and play w/ her dog and stuff (this might sound weird but I do this a lot, I'm friends w/ her mom). I hope that will lead to a small conversation.
I know how you feel. When you see her sometime ask her phone number or ask someone else who has her phone number. Then later over the phone ask her out a bunch of times or something or just keep talking to her then she'll lke you.
